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If you don’t want the same things you move on and don’t look back. He’s trying to have his cake and eat it, don’t allow him to. You tell him to stop and when you’re ready to go again find out a new way for him to climax. This sounds like too much already, it seems like you got closure (the arguing) and you both let out some steam which is fine, but do you really need your past back in your present? Will anything positive come out of this situation, especially with the history you both have? I usually tell people to talk to the other person in the picture but right now I want you to have a conversation with yourself and decide if this is the right move. With Christmas drawing closer and closer I know several women are going to e-mail or send a Direct Message to me asking what to get their naughty or nice boyfriends this holiday. To help compile this I nagged my boyfriend to give me ideas and accidentally let slip what I intended on buying him. (Seriously Oloni?) Lol welp.. Read more here Yeah I can see why you’d be a bit irritated, you have a good boyfriend and he’s clearly a good friend to others. Just talk to him about it. If it’s constantly being done and making you uncomfortable you should be able to say so no one wants to feel like they’re sharing their other half.



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