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hi, i think my boyfriend wants me to be more like his mum. His mum doesn’t work, she’s basically a well presented housewife. We have been dating for like 1 year now, at first he used to give me money for nails and stuff i thought he was bein sweet. But now he says i go uni too much and i should stay to cook and clean. I never want to be a housewife but otherwise hes perfect what should i do? 21. November 2015

I don’t want to be insulting, but if your partner really makes comments on how often you attend university, he’s an absolute idiot. However, he’s your idiot and you have to speak to him about it. I do think these are red flags, but just make sure you have a chat about it and let him know that this bothers you.

Ive been speaking to this guy every day for the past 10 months and we are still not anything. He calls me his ‘wife’ but nothing has been made offical? I just home im not wasting my time. 21. November 2015

Talk to him and ask if the both of you are exclusively dating.

How do you know if somebody is ‘the one’ for you? I can’t tell the difference between a fuck boy (excuse my French) and a good guy sigh 21. November 2015

Why don’t you get a ticket to my webinar here: http://simplyoloni.com/the-love-you-deserve-webinar/

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I’m having a sexual chemistry issue with my bae. He likes rough and fast sex and I prefer slow and intimate sex. I’ve tried different things but he doesn’t change and the pounding always leaves me in pain :/ I just don’t feel the sexual chemistry anymore to the point we have to use so much lube because I’m not excited enough 21. November 2015

Eeeek!! You should not be left in pain due to his rough sex. Talk to him and let him know that you are not enjoying it, he is not having sex with himself, nor are you a blow up doll. There is no reason as to why you should continue to have sex, if you’re always left uncomfortable. Make sure you verbalise the way you prefer to be penetrated. Rough sex does not always = great sex

Hi Oloni i’m in a weird situation and have no idea why its happening. However all 3 of my ex’s have somehow gotten back in contact with me after seeing me in town or at an event.And i’m not entertaining the situation but all relationships ended on a good term no bad blood, but if i were to be truthful to myself is it bad that a small part in me wants to go back to one of them and give it another go, because he wants to aswell. Or would you suggest I leave it to how it is. 21. November 2015

It really does depend on why you broke up in the first place. Have a conversation and make sure you’re both on the exact same page. The last thing you want is to go back to someone only to realise why you broke up a few weeks in.

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