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any tips on sexting or skype sex as me and my boyfriend happen to be on a long distance relationship
22. October 2015
If you’re comfortable enough watch each other on camera pleasuring yourselves. Spice up the conversation by telling him the things you can imagine yourself doing if he was with you. Get pretty lingerie and let him see you in it, send photos make videos.
Hi Oloni, when will you be doing your phonecalls again! I missed out yesterday and really could do with your advice/input
22. October 2015
Hi Oloni, I ended my 2yr relationship with my ex 4 years ago due to his cheating ways. I forgave him and moved on. But each time I found the courage to do so he kept coming back into my life. I recently meet someone new and we are taking it slow. But as usual my ex contacted me.. Telling me all the right things I wanna hear… Reminiscing about the past… Is it wrong for me to still love him after everything? And should I tell the new guy about the drama…
20. October 2015
You’re creating more drama by telling your new guy that. Block your ex’s number, block him off everything. It is very possible for you to still love the man you were once with, but it becomes unhealthy if you return back to someone who was continuously disloyal to you.
Hi oloni. I’m so confused. I’ve been talking to this guy for about 3 months and we’ve been out and had really good times. He’s everything I want but there are a few things that are making me war, he has kids from previous relationships and he is not from the same country as me (but we are both Asian). We started off as a lets see where this can go, but I know he’s caught feelings and I’m thinking I might have too. But I just cannot get over those two issues. Should I end it sooner rather than later?
20. October 2015
If you feel there is no way around it then yes. Don’t create problems for yourself in the future.
Me and my bf have been together for 2 and half years on and off we’ve had our our ups and downs but manage to get through them all. However he has become terrible at replies like I don’t know if I’m over thinking this too much but before he would reply no matter what or at least explain why he hasn’t replied. Now these days I won’t get a reply till the next day (sometimes) or hours later and no explanation and if I ask him he becomes rude or just avoids the question so I have to ask him again. He’ll just say he was busy and that if he doesn’t reply he was busy. It’s really annoying me and I’ve spoke to him about this before and it just ends in a pointless argument which is never resolved.
20. October 2015
Well, if this is something that keeps happening, you have a choice as to whether or not you want to continue with this relationship especially if you’ve spoken about it times without number.
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