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I’ve been seeing/talking to this guy for a couple of months now, things are going good I guess, we’ve been doing things that couples would do in a relationship, like go out, sexual things (not sex). However I feel like I’m getting too comfortable with him and everything but I want to take a step back or something without him feeling that I’m not interested.. Basically I feel like because I’m comfortable with him he may feel like ‘I’ve got her, too easy’ onto the next one because he likes a challenge, even though he hasn’t even made me his girl yet, what do I do ?
16. November 2015
Heya, it seems like you need to know where you stand with this guy instead of thinking of ways to not be too comfortable. I mean sure you can do things like make yourself less available, but I’m getting the feeling that it’s more than that. If you’ve been dating for quite a while, have a chat.
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15. November 2015
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Hi Oloni, I feel like my boyfriend is never there for my emotional needs. Recently I’ve been going through a very difficult time and I would’ve thought he of all people will be there for me to comfort me and help me. However, he hasn’t done so much as to check up on me to see how I’m doing; or he’ll make it about him and cause unnecessary arguments. How am I to deal with this because I don’t think I don’t take much more of this.
11. November 2015
You have to sit down and let out your feeling to him. Discuss this without any arguments. Communicating is very necessary for a relationship to work, even when things are very rocky. You both have to figure out a way to solve this problem, if you want things to carry on.
Hi oloni, I’ve been with a guy for 2 years now and I made a mistake and cheated on him. He took me back but however It’s changed the dynamics of our relationship. For example, I was previously the dominant one but now it’s the other way round. He says he loved me but will never forgive me for this. What should I do? I love him.
11. November 2015
This isn’t going to work if he has stated he’s never going forgive you.
Hi! So I’ve recently started liking a guy only to find out that he’s got back together with his ex. I don’t want to stop being friends with him but at the same time I hate know that I like someone who’s in a relationship. Do I avoid seeing him when he’s in town or continue the friendship at the risk of liking him even more?
11. November 2015
If you have feelings for someone who’s committed to someone else, do yourself a favour and keep a distance. You’re only torturing yourself by remaining in this position.
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