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so I really love this guy, so much it’s crazy. I’ve loved him for nearly a year now and I recently found out he has a girlfriend, he has never mentioned her and he even flirts with me. So I then went on to do something so bad…I let my feelings control me. I basically set up this fake Twitter account & catfished his girlfriend in hopes of them breaking up. She’s actually given the guy I’m pretending to bet a lot of interest. This has been going on for 6 weeks now and I feel like the girl is catching feelings. How do I expose her without it all backfiring on me? 26. October 2015

This is very unhealthy and I would also advise that you should seek some counselling. There is no guy in the world who should make you stoop to this level. If you want to get out of this simply delete your account and leave both him and his girlfriend alone, nothing positive is going to come from this if you continue.


READ: The “Hey Stranger” Season Text 26. October 2015

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“Hey Stranger” season is probably the most ‘eye-rolling’ season ever. For those who have no idea what it means, it’s…

‘When you receive, or send, a message from someone you have hooked up with or had a relationship with in the past or wanted to but didn’t have the opportunity. The opening line of “hey stranger” is the socially acceptable way to say “it’s been a long time but I am still interested in hooking up if you are?”

It usually takes place a month before “cuffing season”. An old flame that you’ve sworn off reappears … Read more HERE


Hey Oloni, my boyfriend loves giving me head. LOVES as in he seems addicted to my vagina. At first I was flattered but now it’s become annoying. He tries to pop in when I’m at work and isolate me to get a taste. He does it when I’m on the phone to my parents. At least once an hour he makes an attempt and it’s not exciting anymore. Just annoying. He feels upset when I reject him so now I let him do it out of pity. I love him so much but this had become a major inconvenience. What do I do? 26. October 2015

It’s great that he enjoys pleasuring you, but not when it becomes a selfish act. You have to voice how you feel, there is a time and place, at work isn’t one of them.


So there’s this guy that I really like but we aren’t official yet because he wasn’t honest with me from the onset and now he confessed everything but I’m finding it difficult to trust him but I really like him and I see a future with him but I’m really scared: he’s been asking me out for about 6-7 months. What’s your take on it? 26. October 2015

It all depends on what he wasn’t honest about and whether or not it’s something you can honestly move past. 6-7 months is enough time to make things exclusive for a couple who’d like to be in a monogamous relationship. But first you have to decide if what he did affected the progression of your relationship.


I am 21 and married, it’s been 4 months now. But my husband does some really dumb shit, too many to write down, but his recent pass-time is a Instagram he’s dedicated to porn clips, on here he tags random women in these videos and they openly talk about sex .. I confronted him about it and he basically blamed it on me, saying these women give him the attention I don’t. He says this a way for him to relieve his stress, i’m not sure if i’m just being an emotional woman but i’m not okay with him and he doesn’t see the problem because he hasn’t technically slept with these women. The last couple times we’ve had sex he talks about threesomes and anal sex, which makes me really uncomfortable. Just makes me feel dirty and hoe like 24. October 2015

He’s completely wrong and way out of line. It’s inappropriate and you have to tell him to stop his antics immediately. How would he feel if it was the other way around? His excuses are just as silly as his behaviour so I wont get into that. As for the things he says to you while you’re in bed, if that makes you uncomfortable then that needs to stop also, granted that it can be a fantasy of his and not something he truly wants  you need to discuss that also and emphasise how it makes you FEEL. I would suggest you both go for couples counselling


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