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Why does the guy always need to ask the girl out and not the reverse? Make this QOTD lets get the debate going 24. October 2015

That’s not how this works dear. I pick the topic of discussion.

I’m seeing a guy who recently had a baby. The only time I see him is when I travel to see him (he doesn’t live in London). We sometimes see each other when he’s in London but that’s not often, considering he’s in London every weekend to see his child. We were seeing each other 2 years ago on and off and decided to make a go of things again this year. Honest advice please because I feel like trust issues are gonna rip me apart. I’ve been heartbroken by him once before, should I continue seeing him or end things now? HELP PLEASE! 24. October 2015

This is your decision, but you have to ask yourself why you’re giving things another go… Have you resolved your past issues? Is the relationship better? Does he make you happy? You also mentioned you had to trust issues but never said what caused it. Figure all these things out. Right now it seems like you’re in an on and off relationship and you’re clueless as to where the direction of it is going.

My ex bf cheated on me emotionally and treated me horribly. i still have feelings for him and he claims the same, he’ll act sometimes we’re in a relationship but maintains he doesnt want one and walks in and out of my life. What should i do? 24. October 2015

Get rid of him and move on.

My ex emotionally betrayed me, I loved him very much and gave him my all. However i ended things yet 7 months later the drama is ongoing, he rarely admits blame or apologises and often makes me feel bad. However I still harbour feelings for him that prevent me from blocking him out of my life and moving on. I dont know what to do, help!! 24. October 2015

You NEED to cut him loose. You also need to figure out how you’re going to go about doing so. His apologies are irrelevant and 7 months later you haven’t realised that. If you’re trying to move on, you have to let go.

Sorry, one thing I’m uncomfortable about it my private area as it has scars. He hasn’t really picked up anything but I can only have sex in the dark and its really affecting my sex life. Would should I do? I want to make my man happy but first I need to make myself. 24. October 2015

Hey! Its very common to feel insecure about parts of your body alot of us are. You have to have a conversation with him and let him know how you feel. Try to express your concerns to him and hopefully it will help make things better in the bedroom

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