Oh no she’s not listening. Please don’t tell her anything else if that was how she responded because there are other ways she could have done that. Like not in front of people??? I wouldn’t trust her if I was you. Might want to put that friendship on ice for a little.

Oloni

You’re having sex for the first time, don’t worry about performing too much. Just explore and see what you enjoy with time everything will come naturally. I promise. Remember to try self pleasure so you understand your body too! Good luck, have fun, use lube and a condom.

Oloni

You need to have a conversation about his hygiene and just express what you’ve noticed. Be gentle (even though you shouldn’t cus that’s nasty) but people are sensitive and you don’t want to be homeless.

Oloni

Don’t they be fucking at these things? No, she has to go. Tell him to implement respectable boundaries or she has to go!

Oloni

If she was only meant to stay for a couple of days and it’s turned into weeks.. you’re within your right to ask, what the hell is going on? In a polite and civilised manner, of course. Try again and explain where you’re coming from, express how it’s made you feel. It’s unfair for you to accommodate his mother outside of the agreed time especially if they’re making you uncomfortable. Obviously context matters, so if she’s ill, grieving or something sensitive has taken place please do try to be patient. But ultimately communicate.

Oloni