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Its my BF birthday soon. Any ideas of what to do? Its been a rough summer for us. So want to make him happy again . Thanks hun 20. October 2015

If he loves music and enjoys live shows, why not surprise him with tickets to an artist who might be coming to town soon. Enjoy the experience together.

Hi Oloni, I just started talking to this guy and I’m falling for him. He seems that he likes me but his intentions are unclear at the moment. Would I be doing the right thing if I was to pursue anything with him? 20. October 2015

Ge to know him more and relax.

Hi Oloni! I have a male best friend who has been there for me this past year and we’re very close. But he does this thing where he makes future comments about us as a couple then asks as if he’s joking. I always talk to him about girls and he acts like it bothers him. I honestly believe if I wasn’t a 24 year old virgin then we would have had sex because we are attracted to each other. I just feel he’s not trying to be in a relationship with me because of that but honestly I just want him as a friend. I’ve tried telling him but he’s now ignoring me because I said I cherished his friendship. I don’t want to lose him but I don’t want to also give him hope when I know I don’t want a boyfriend right now. Yours sincerely, the confused best friend 20. October 2015

Hi Best Friend, the truth is you’re both confused and you need to speak to each other instead of thinking this isn’t happening, because of that and just guessing all together. Speak, talk have a chat and ask questions.

My boyfriend and I had a threesome with a friend of mine. Comepletely consensual it was fine. Recently she made me aware that she was pregnant with his child and I do not know what to do. She plans on keeping the child. He obviously wants to be with me and is in utter shock at this situation. What do I do? By the way, lesson learnt I know very well we should have had safe sex. 20. October 2015

This is very messy, and you’re right you should have used all means of protection. But this has now gone past that, there’s not much you can do as you’re not the one who’s pregnant. This is more than likely to have a huge impact on your friendship and your relationship, so what your left with now is how you’re going to treat the situation. Can you carry on the relationship and can you carry on the friendship?

Is LinkedIn The New Dating App? 17. October 2015

I threw this question out online the other day after being hit on via LinkedIn, the professional networking site. Not once either three times in one week. It was something like ‘Hey Babe, nice photo. Tell me a bit about yourself.’ Pardon? I rushed to my home page to see if LinkedIn had implemented a relationship status box similar to Facebook where mine may have read ‘Single & ready to mingle with any guy who’s wearing a suit in his display photo’ and as suspected, it didn’t.

So why were all these guys hitting on me and through LinkedIn?? LinkedIn?? It felt slightly awkward. Especially as I only sign in once every few days. If it were somewhere like Facebook, Twitter or EVEN Instagram I wouldn’t be writing this. But on LinkedIn women do not want to be oogled at. We’re there to connect with those who have a similar work ethic or are in…. read more HERE

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