Hi! So my issue is strange and starting to depress me. I am a 24 years old and guys always approach me and take me on dates. I spend time getting to know them but when they find out about my virginity they suddenly become not interested or just ignore me. It’s happened 3 times now, what is wrong with me? Im really feeling hurt over this cause it keeps happening.
21. November 2015
The men who behave like this are doing you a favour and it shows where there minds at. Keep dating and remember you don’t have to tell every single guy you’re getting to know the state of your sexuality, that’s private.
Recently I ended things with a guy because it was complicated. We agreed to be friends but another argument in which he insisted he didnt care about me ended all that. Since then it is like he has been looking of ways to talk to me. Drunk calling me at 2 am, which I declined. Also the other day messaging me to ask how I am and asking for directions in an area his cousin lives in and knows well. Is this his way of showing he ‘cares’ and should I speak to him? Or carry on ignoring him
21. November 2015
He’s trying to worm his way back in, especially by drunk calling at such hours. If it bothers you keep your distance and stop answering his calls.
Hi Oloni this is a shallow question but how many times should you forgive your partner ? I’ve just exsperienced something weird with my boyfriend I know he’s been cheating because I had a phone call from one of his female friends asking me who I am to my own boyfriend. I broke up with him but I really do miss him but I just don’t know what to do.
17. November 2015
You’re allowing him to carry on cheating because you’ve clearly forgiven him too many times. This relationship needs to die, especially with that cheeky phone call. Girl.. stop ignoring these blatant red flags.
So I touched down in Uni in October – a virgin and inexperienced with relationships. I meet this girl and we find out we have lots in common, like each other a lot stay up speaking in our rooms etc. Eventually we hook up and that same night we both have sex for the first time. We had been hooking up since, but she made it clear that she doesn’t want a relationship because of a scarred past (and a desire to meet new people; in fact I had to hassle her to be exclusive to me) and that I should tone down my feelings. I bregugingly did so and all was good. We had a pregnancy scare, but it passed. Anyway, the other day, we have sex and I am feeling moody, she leaves during the night and I show her out, feeling upset. The next morning, she says she can no longer see me as anything other than a friend, because my being upset when she leaves indicates feelings. Apparently she feels guilty that she is tagging me along in an arrangement I don’t really want, and thereby preventing me meeting another girl I could make happy. Is this a bullshit excuse? Certainly seems so to me.
17. November 2015
Regardless of what you may think it is (bullshit) what she has voiced, that she is no longer interested in what you were doing prior. So if it was just sex that you were both having, she doesnt want to carry on. As I mentioned she could be bullshitting you with her excuse, but the clear hint is she wants out, so just accept it and move on.
Subscribe To Our Newsletter
Sign up to our mailing list to read our sex and relationship features first.
You have Successfully Subscribed!