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My “boyfriend” stole money from me behind my back because I logged into his Snapchat account and now he’s refusing to give it back, what do I do? 28. November 2015

Go to the police.

I’ve known this guy since I was 17/18 (I’m 21 now) and I’ve always had a thing for him but never had the guts to tell him. We recently got closer and ended up having sex. He’s been trying to see me ever since but I keep coming up with excuses so he can’t. I’m still very much attracted to him if not more so I’m not sure why I’m running from him is this normal at all because I’m so confused he makes more effort to talk than I do so much so that he now thinks I’m avoiding him; what should I do ? 28. November 2015

You seem uninterested, so do the right thing and let him know.

My boyfriend and I have a great sex life and I am very much satisfied, but I’ve log had secret BDSM fantasies that I’ve never expressed. He knows I enjoy being spanked and strangled, but one time I joked about ties and cuffs and he made it very clear he was NOT into it. How can I suggest it in a way that may cause him to consider it in a different way? 28. November 2015

Bring it up in a conversation and let him know these are one of your fantasies. You just need to have a chat about it the next time sex is the topic.

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My boyfriend is very conscious of his penis size, there was a time when he flat out told me he has a small penis. To me it is under average but it does satisfy me and tbh I’m not even bothered but when he’s around me he hides it for example when he comes out the shower he’s always covering up changing like he’s changing in p.e lol but I want him too be comfortable around me and doesn’t have too be shy anymore. What can I do so he is, or do I leave it so it’s doesn’t get even more uncomfortable I just want him too be secure and know he doesn’t have too be so self conscious. 27. November 2015

I don’t know how long you’ve been dating for, but I do know that it’s no secret that a lot of men take pride in the size of their penis. Have a talk with him and let him know that he doesn’t need to be insecure about his penis. I do also feel that the longer you’re with each other the more comfortable he’ll be around you.

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