Invest in some lubricant and make sure you’re indulging in 20-30 minutes of foreplay before everything else.

When you’re having a conversation next and not a ‘Hey how are you’ quick phone call/text but a proper good ol conversation tell him that you’d prefer if you go to know each other more before getting physical again.

Sexual compatibility is important to a lot of people, so don’t cross it off the list if this is something you need in a relationship.  It’s up to you now to decide what you want to do in terms of continuing the relationship. Perhaps you could try and bring toys into the bedroom that will help him last longer, such as a cock ring. They do help.

Why don’t you book a phone call session with me. I answer this question often, yet I think some women overlook it or don’t understand how dating works. You can talk to me personally here

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Thank you! I’m sure you know it’s very common amongst women to have a low libido from time to time. Sometimes you’re ready to rip his clothes off like an animal and other times the thought of sex just seems like a chore you’d rather postpone. It’s good to hear it’s back however, but now there’s another issue the ‘forbidden sex’ phase (well I’d like it to be a phase for you) that you’re currently going through. It’s perfectly natural to reminisce about an ex who hit the spot differently, but acting on it wouldn’t be wise. I’d advise that you try watering your own grass and think of ways to make your sex life something Ann Summers would be jealous about. Try indulging in fantasies with your partner, make it naughty, make THAT forbidden. Don’t do something you’ll regret for a quick thrill.