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So there’s this guy I’m kinda talking to at the moment he’s really cool and nice and everything but his grammar is rather terrible ? like basic grammar such as past tense and basic English. It’s putting me off. He’s a lot older than me so I feel like I can’t correct him as it might be too late for him to start getting his grammar right. Am I being extra?
28. November 2015
It’s a turn off and if you can’t move past that turn off .. keep it moving.
Hi Oloni, I’ve had this sexual relationship with this guy for the past two years. Purely sex nothing else. I met this wonderful guy now and we’ve been dating for a while, he’s great and we both see a future together. Only problem is that his sex is really not what i am used to(size wise). I’ve been keeping my distance with the other guy but the temptation is getting harder. What should I do?
28. November 2015
You have to try and figure out what is more important to you. The sexual chemistry you have with other fella or the guy you gel well with outside of the sheets. Remember it’s not always the size of a guys penis which determines whether or not he’s great in bed. So maybe you can try doing other things to make the experience better with the guy you’re dating.
Hi Oloni. I’ve been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two years. Recently he told me he doesn’t want to be committed to me anymore, however he still wants us to be intimate and to be together, just without the title. I’ve told him how I feel but it’s like I’m not getting through. I don’t wanna be someone he just comes to for sexual pleasure but doesn’t want to be committed to. What do I do now?
28. November 2015
If you don’t want the same things you move on and don’t look back. He’s trying to have his cake and eat it, don’t allow him to.
Hi right so I’ve been in a relationship for a while now my boyfriend and I have sex but we go on for hours and he doesn’t cum he takes ages I have to stop, what do I tell him?
28. November 2015
You tell him to stop and when you’re ready to go again find out a new way for him to climax.
was seeing a guy a couple months back for a year and I got pregnant, I got rid as I was too young and we both weren’t ready. Shortly after this me and the guy went our separate ways. But recently he hollered at me getting informed on what’s going on with him & that he’s a dad now n with his baby mum, but he also still claims to have a soft spot for me and ngl I met up with him (ended up in tears as we argued about what I went through) he kissed me & told me I should continue pursuing him. What do I do?
28. November 2015
This sounds like too much already, it seems like you got closure (the arguing) and you both let out some steam which is fine, but do you really need your past back in your present? Will anything positive come out of this situation, especially with the history you both have? I usually tell people to talk to the other person in the picture but right now I want you to have a conversation with yourself and decide if this is the right move.
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