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Dear Oloni, me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while now and whilst I love him so much and I know he loves me back he isn’t the most emotionally verbal person. At first I let it slide because not only am I the first serious relationship he’s been in and he treats be wonderfully. But I can’t help feeling a bit unloved. I don’t know if I am being over dramatic and need but what should I do?
9. December 2015
You need to have a conversation with him and discuss this.
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7. December 2015
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I have been single for five years now and struggling to find a suitable woman. These days its all about keeping up appearances so I often get overlooked. I am a steady and ambitious guy -what can I do to boost my options. Please help
7. December 2015
You can try attending different social gatherings and introducing yourself to different women. Use dating apps too! It’s a great way to get the ball rolling. There are a lot women out there who would love to meet you, go find them!!
Hi Oloni. I’ve been with my boyfriend for over 5 years now. He’s 21 and I’m 20 and I can’t see myself with another person. I love him so much but the last year I’ve been feeling that all he’s interested in is sex. He used to be romantic, you know the whole date night thing, calling me randomly just to talk to me but now, I feel like we’re just friends with benefits. I’ll call him upset, trying to speak to him about what’s wrong but then he’ll laugh tell me the way I feel is stupid the. Question wether I’m on my period coz apparently that’s the only time a woman can be angry. I honestly just feel like he doesn’t care about me any more. I’ve asked him numerous times if he still wants the relationship and he says yes but I can tell he doesn’t. He’s the only person I’ve been with intimately, the only person I’ve ever loved and I can’t take the way he’s been treating me. I’m starting to think that I’m crazy and stupid and that everything is fine but I can’t shake of the feeling that our relationship is coming to an end. What do I do now?
7. December 2015
You can try having a conversation about how you feel in the relationship instead of asking if he wants to continue on with it. He’s already said yes, so all that’s left is for you to share your worries on the way everything is heading. Try using the examples that you explained to me. If this doesn’t help, perhaps you’re better off alone. Being together for a number of years does not mean anything if you’re unhappy
What can I do too get my boyfriend too start appreciating me, I litrally do so much for him and it’s like he doesn’t see it. Right now my plan is too ignore him but I think that’s a bit petty and can backfire.. What should I say or do
7. December 2015
You can’t force someone to appreciate you, it’s hurtful it’s upsetting, but you can’t. If he doesn’t see your kindness then it’s best to find someone who will.
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