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Hi Oloni, Ive been with my boyfriend for over a year now. He treats me well, he basically treats me like a princess. The only issue I have is that he hasnt said he loves me yet. Im more than ready to say it to him, but Im not sure if I should say it first, plus I dont want to make things awkward between us especially if he doesnt feel the same way. What should I do? Thanks in advance x
2. January 2016
If you believe it then say it, if things are great between the two of you, you have nothing to fear I’m sue he feels the same. He’s probably just as nervous as you.
Hey Oloni, basically I’m talking to a guy and everything is going great until I saw his snapchat and saw that he’s friends with someone I’ve slept with. I don’t know if I should tell him or just 🙁
2. January 2016
You’re ‘talking’ not dating. It’s not something that needs be brought up right now. If the dynamics of the relationship change, you can let him know then.
Hey Oloni, so I’m currently seeing a guy and everything is going smoothly. However, recently a female friend of mine confronted me and told me that she’s jealous of my relationship with the guy because she has feelings for me. We’ve been friends for not too long and we get on really well. I have no idea on what I should do though. Please help x
2. January 2016
It was very brave of her to open up and tell you, but unless you feel the same all you can do is let her down gently.
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2. January 2016
Hi, this isn’t exactly a relationship question, but I’d really appreciate some perspective on this.. I’m a 21 yr old female & I have a family friend who’s 12 years older than me. When I was 4 & he was 16 our families had a BBQ and he was asked to look after me for the duration of it. About half way through he took me to his room and started explaining how grown ups make babies and asked if I wanted him to show me. I didn’t. He got his penis out anyway, made me touch/hold it and sit on him while he was naked to simulate sex. I got upset & ran away, but I never told anyone and I thought no more of it until recently when my dad told me he’s become primary school teacher (reception and yr 1) Finding that out reminded me of what had happened and I now feel worried/scared about what this mans intentions may be working with children. Am I over reacting? Should I say something after all these years?
1. January 2016
Opening up about your past experience would be saving so many other childeren. He took advantage of his resbonibilities and should be punished not being given a new job role that involves kids especially as teachers are those parents trust. I would advise you to speak to the police and report what you know but also (if you haven’t) speak to someone close and who you trust.
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