Sorry, I submitted early, me and my bestie have also kissed and discussed a future so I do have feelings for him but I feel he’s just with her for sex. Is it rude I see her as my wife fluffer or not hence why I won’t tell her he’s using her and told everyone that already cause it kinda makes me look jealous.
5. January 2016
I think what goes on in their relationship has nothing to do with you. He’s wrong for telling you these intimate details about his relationship, even if it is petty. She may or may not be your wife fluffer. She could be his wife.. right now I think you need to take a step back from this friendship because it seems like there’s a weird love triangle going on. You clearly have feelings for your bestie and I doubt any woman wants her boyfriend to have a close relationship where she could also see so.
Hi Oloni so I basically have a male best friend who recently got a girlfriend well seeing someone but she hates me I rarely talk to him lately cause I respect their relationship but she’s controlling like she withholds sex if he even tries to talk to me which I find hilarious but I really want him happy. do I continue minding my business or risk losing a friend over some petty girlfriend? Also, before they dated the only reason we couldn’t date was cause I’m saving myself for marriage and he’s a guy who I didn’t senators
5. January 2016
I’ve been seeing a guy for almost two years. We haven’t identified what we are, yet does and says the most amazing things. He knows I desire to be married, but makes no mention of what we are. When I bring up the conversation he tends to say “I’m already in a relationship with her” there’s no one else in the picture and he often emphasises that he “likes me a lot”what to do?
5. January 2016
You lost me at seeing a guy for two years..whatever you think you might have let it go.
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Hi Oloni, so today I stumbled across my dad’s phone and decided to have a quick peak at his messages, which I know I shouldn’t have been doing but well.. So I was looking through his messages and came across a lady who was sending my dad very unusual messages so I scrolled all the way to the top to see all of the messages that they had been sending each other. I realised that they had been talking for several months if not years and she was sending him messages like ‘I love you, I just want to be with you, don’t forget the condoms etc’ and he was sending her messages too saying things like ‘hey babe, I miss you’ etc. Recently my family and I went on holiday and in the messages she kept pestering my dad about when he was coming (so she clearly lived where we went on holiday) and whether he would book a hotel so that they could meet and he responded and gave her a time and day that they would meet which I’m guessing they did due to the direction in which the conversation went a day after. I remember a day on holiday that I saw a message on my dads phone saying ‘I love you’ with the woman’s name. Fortunately my mum, my dad and I all saw this message but he quickly deleted it. I had a long conversation with my mum that night and she basically just told me that she would never get divorced to my dad whatever happened and because we did not actually have any proof, we couldn’t do anything about it. But now I have seen the messages completely which is proof but I don’t know what to do with the information from the messages. I don’t know whether to tell my mum even though I know my dad makes her happy and I don’t want to take that happiness away from her. I also have younger siblings and I don’t want them to be affected by this issue. I don’t know whether to speak to my dad. I don’t know whether to talk to a close friend or to take matters into my own hands and get the number of the actual lady and send her a Message in case of if she doesn’t know that he is married with children. Please tell me what to do Oloni. Thank you
5. January 2016
Hey love, I understand this must be a difficult situation for you right now. A position I’m sure no parent wants their kid to be in. I have a feeling your mother might already know what’s up, however this doesn’t mean you shouldn’t tell her. You know what you’ve seen and you know it isn’t right, so break the news gently. Once you’ve done that allow your ma, to make up her own decision as to what she wants to do and do your best to be there for her.
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