Hey,

It’s hard to tell the exact reason why you keep finding yourself in these situations as I don’t know you personally and there are endless possibilities. But one thing is for sure you need to believe in yourself and be confident in your game. Rejection happens to us all and irrespective of how consistently it happens what matters most is how you deal with it. Since you’ve mentioned you keep getting friend zoned maybe it would do you some good asking these ladies why they rejected you? Don’t be afraid to ask your female friends who know you best, they should be able to tell you whatever you need to know out of love and if they don’t they’re not a friend worth keeping. But finally, understand sometimes it’s not always an issue of approach or a representation of yourself, sometimes we’ve just been unlucky. But honestly when it’s meant for you it will be for you, contrary to how it feels, you’re still young with lots of time to learn more about yourself and women so take it easy on yourself, explore, experiment, try new things until you get it right.

-Ebi A

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I can’t tell you how to feel, but what I can do is let you know that you’re not the only 21 year old virgin. It’s very normal, despite who’s sexually active around you. Sex isn’t something you rush into, so don’t allow the pressure of society rush you into something you’re not ready for. RELAX. I promise you, sex is not going anywhere so take your time. You can still explore your sexuality even if you are a virgin.

I don’t think he had feelings for you, I think he wanted what a lot of men want, sex. Let this go it wasn’t really going anywhere from the sound of things.

I think what goes on in their relationship has nothing to do with you. He’s wrong for telling you these intimate details about his relationship, even if it is petty. She may or may not be your wife fluffer. She could be his wife.. right now I think you need to take a step back from this friendship because it seems like there’s a weird love triangle going on. You clearly have feelings for your bestie and I doubt any woman wants her boyfriend to have a close relationship where she could also see so.