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My 6month relationship went downhill recently…strangely he wasn’t so close to me…yesterday night I went through his phone and he’s snapchatting girls saying he can’t wait to have sex with them, suck their breast ect. There was like 12 different girls he was talking to. He was out there looking single so none of them know he even had a girl. We broke up now, what do I do? Forget him and never talk to him or what? I’m really heart broken, we had all these “plans” but he was there talking to other girls. He even told me he’s ready to have a child….lol can you imagine?!
3. January 2016
Ew what a slime. Be glad you found out what you did. Deep down perhaps you didn’t trust him all along. You’ve got a new year now, so start off fresh and be done with your ex. It will be hard, but I’m sure I don’t need to tell you how you deserve better.
Hi Oloni. Just a quick question to clear up some confusion I have. What would you say is normal progression in the lead up to a stable relationship? With all these situationships etc. i never know what I should be or shouldn’t be expecting? Happy New Year babes!!
3. January 2016
Hi Oloni, Ive been with my boyfriend for over a year now. He treats me well, he basically treats me like a princess. The only issue I have is that he hasnt said he loves me yet. Im more than ready to say it to him, but Im not sure if I should say it first, plus I dont want to make things awkward between us especially if he doesnt feel the same way. What should I do? Thanks in advance x
2. January 2016
If you believe it then say it, if things are great between the two of you, you have nothing to fear I’m sue he feels the same. He’s probably just as nervous as you.
Hey Oloni, basically I’m talking to a guy and everything is going great until I saw his snapchat and saw that he’s friends with someone I’ve slept with. I don’t know if I should tell him or just 🙁
2. January 2016
You’re ‘talking’ not dating. It’s not something that needs be brought up right now. If the dynamics of the relationship change, you can let him know then.
Hey Oloni, so I’m currently seeing a guy and everything is going smoothly. However, recently a female friend of mine confronted me and told me that she’s jealous of my relationship with the guy because she has feelings for me. We’ve been friends for not too long and we get on really well. I have no idea on what I should do though. Please help x
2. January 2016
It was very brave of her to open up and tell you, but unless you feel the same all you can do is let her down gently.
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