Your happiness matters and always comes first. Many people say things in the heat of the moment they don’t really mean, while others true colours come to light. However, it’s not an excuse, in fact it’s a very nasty habit that you need to sit down and discuss when there’s peace.  While talking you should also ask him how he feels about the relationship, and whether he wants to stay. If it always seems like he’s about to break up, then you should find out if that’s what he truly wants. Yeah, solutions can be found, but if you’re not clicking the way you used to and you’re constantly arguing, a relationship which is only a year old can’t survive on constant solutions. There needs to be respect, an understanding, YOU need to be HAPPY and most of all you need to be sure that the relationship is what you BOTH want.

Hey love, I understand this is a tricky situation and since there’s already a foundation for the relationship you have together I can see why you’d like to be exclusive. However, not being in a relationship for a certain time doesn’t mean you need to jump into one. That’s not how these things work. Right now he’s explained his situation, which is being too busy to give you the commitment you want. You’re going to have to listen to him, unless you’d rather settle for a guy who’s very sometimish with you. Yes you love him, but sometimes  love isn’t enough it both people can’t give their all to a proper relationship. You need to distance yourself, because this could turn into a new episode and become a situationship. When a man says he isn’t ready for a relationship, believe him. Even if you got together could you really deal with the fact of how busy he was, with little time to spare? But as I said before..take a step back from this friendship, it’s only fair to yourself.

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She might be bisexual, but that’s honestly besides the point. You’re both clearly attracted to each other and it’d be healthy if you had an honest open conversation about it, as you’re either treating it like the elephant in the room, or sweeping it under the rug. You could also both just be exploring your sexuality, but when one person is in a committed relationship, it isn’t right. Your next step should be what I mentioned prior, TALK about it.

‘I was hoping we could have a conversation about what happened the other day…’