Not necessarily, but you need to make your sister very aware of the situation and it might be helpful to ask her why exactly she rejected him, she may know some things you don’t. At the end of the day you obviously care about your sisters feelings so I think it’s best you ask her if she’s okay with it. What you do from there is on you but it won’t be without consequences (assuming she’s not as supportive as you hoped).

Ebi- A

Hey,

It’s hard to tell the exact reason why you keep finding yourself in these situations as I don’t know you personally and there are endless possibilities. But one thing is for sure you need to believe in yourself and be confident in your game. Rejection happens to us all and irrespective of how consistently it happens what matters most is how you deal with it. Since you’ve mentioned you keep getting friend zoned maybe it would do you some good asking these ladies why they rejected you? Don’t be afraid to ask your female friends who know you best, they should be able to tell you whatever you need to know out of love and if they don’t they’re not a friend worth keeping. But finally, understand sometimes it’s not always an issue of approach or a representation of yourself, sometimes we’ve just been unlucky. But honestly when it’s meant for you it will be for you, contrary to how it feels, you’re still young with lots of time to learn more about yourself and women so take it easy on yourself, explore, experiment, try new things until you get it right.

-Ebi A

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I can’t tell you how to feel, but what I can do is let you know that you’re not the only 21 year old virgin. It’s very normal, despite who’s sexually active around you. Sex isn’t something you rush into, so don’t allow the pressure of society rush you into something you’re not ready for. RELAX. I promise you, sex is not going anywhere so take your time. You can still explore your sexuality even if you are a virgin.

I don’t think he had feelings for you, I think he wanted what a lot of men want, sex. Let this go it wasn’t really going anywhere from the sound of things.