I think younger women are being more vocal about their sexuality because it empowers them, it doesn’t make them a ‘hoe’. This is something I wish was more acceptable when I was younger as a lot of women were looked down on for just simply discussing things men are praised for. You may not be the same, you might be more private about your sexual experiences, women who are similar to you are still out there, just because that’s all you see, doesn’t mean that, that’s all there is.

Just have a conversation with him over phone and let him know that you’d prefer if you could go back to being friends. There’s nothing major to talk about if feelings aren’t involved and you’re just having casual sex.

Yeah, 4 months is enough time to decide whether or not you’d like to be exclusive with someone. Have another chat and ask what he’s not ready for. The last thing you want is to invest too much of yourself into someone, who’ll never be ‘ready’.

People will always judge you no matter what. You could get judged for being a virgin or sleeping with three guys, their opinions aren’t your concern. There are several women who have what they deem to be a high number and still end up in a happy and faithful relationship. Someone who can’t accept that your past doesn’t define who you are, is not someone you want to be with. My concern is whether or not you have healed completely from the experiences you went through prior with your ex’s. As for for views from men, not all of them are the same.. some will care, other won’t.

Next year!