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Hi Oloni, I was wondering if you have any tips for keeping in contact over the christmas break. We mainly talk when we hang out and a bit of texting in between. I’ll be gone for 3 weeks and dont really want it to fizzle out any tips? 12. December 2015

Try fitting phone calls between the time your spent away. Facetime or skype too. The truth is if it’s meant to be things won’t die out.


The Instagram Husband 9. December 2015

Hi Oloni, I had been with my ex for around 3 years but we have been on and off for about the last 7 months. I started talking to a really nice guy, about 3/4 months ago and my ex found out and went crazy (which I would assume anyone would), he told me he thought we were going somewhere. He has given me and ultimatum, but the new guy I like has never done anything wrong, and has so much good qualities. I love my ex but I feel like our relationship has been too up and down to go back. My question is, should I try things with my ex, or turn the page and go for something new? 9. December 2015

First things first. You’re coming across as a relationship hopper. ‘Who can love me more?’ is the vibe I’m getting from your question. If something isn’t working out, you don’t return to keep watching it fail. I’m worried the new guy could be accidentally become a rebound and if he is great for you will things really work out properly, especially as you clearly haven’t moved on from your ex? If you’re sure you want to go for the new guy, then cut off your ex and take things very slowly with the newbie.


What’s your advice for getting over a guy? It’s been nearly four months and I’m still waking up with him being the first thing on my mind. 9. December 2015

It really does depend on the nature of the relationship. Was he your boyfriend or someone you were seeing? How long were you seeing each other for? I always encourage clients to try as much as possible to keep themselves busy. This helps take your mind of the hurt or even reminiscing. Getting over a guy is never easy. Fact. But you have to figure out new ways to occupy your time to clear your mind.


Hello Oloni,I have a girlfriend and a baby mother. Recently I have found myself (for no reason at all) having feelings for my baby mother again. I’ve desperately tried to put them out of my mind as I don’t know where the feelings have come from but to no avail. My girlfriend is a fantastic and beautiful soul that I really love but I cant get my baby mother out of my head. What do I do. Do I leave the girlfriend and pursue my ex or do I distance myself from my baby mum hoping the feelings will eventually go away. 9. December 2015

You need to figure out where these feelings have started coming from and why. It’s natural for you to love the mother of your child, she held something you both created for 9 months. But if you’re developing romantic feelings for someone else it isn’t fair to the person you’re in a committed relationship with. Give it some time to make sure these aren’t temporary emotions. If it isn’t, I’d suggest you have an honest talk with your girlfriend and let her know your heart is elsewhere.


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