Going through his phone wasn’t the greatest move, but it seems like you already knew deep down that he couldn’t be trusted. What you saw was very inappropriate and a good enough reason to leave the relationship. Speak to him and let him know what you’ve seen.

There might be a chance that you’re not sexually compatible. First off, you need to tell him that you’re not achieving an oragsm each time you have sex. You can’t force him to give you oral pleasure but he may look for new ways to sexually satisfy you. I understand that it’s annoying, because you’re clearly reminiscing about the last time you had great sex with someone else … so try the things I mentioned and see how it goes. You could even introduce toys into the room if you wanted.

Your issue isn’t with him, it’s with your friend, when these situations occur it’s best to have a conversation, but also wise if you start keeping things to yourself, since she has demonstrated that she can’t be trusted.

It’s perfectly normal to be shy so don’t worry too much about that. Perhaps when you’re able to get to know someone more you’ll come out of your shell. As for the guy you added on snapchat, I would suggest you message him and start off a simple conversation. If you’d like to talk further see here: http://simplyoloni.com/relationship-coaching-packages/

Mia* a 23-year-old university graduate from Tottenham speaks to me about being a phone sex operator when she was 18.

‘No caller was ever the same. You’d get men who wanted to get their load off and just nut to your voice over the phone and hang up immediately, but sometimes you got lads who just fancied a nice chat.’  …Read more HERE