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I have a high body count and when I eventually open up to guys they are put off. It all went downhill when I was cheated on by an ex of a year by two females one of who he is with now and has three kids .Im 19 my body count is 27.I really regret and wish I could erase it but every time I say people judge. I’ve lied in the past that didn’t go down well .but If I say people are not interested I just want a happy long lasting relationship what should I do? More importantly what are boys views? 12. December 2015

People will always judge you no matter what. You could get judged for being a virgin or sleeping with three guys, their opinions aren’t your concern. There are several women who have what they deem to be a high number and still end up in a happy and faithful relationship. Someone who can’t accept that your past doesn’t define who you are, is not someone you want to be with. My concern is whether or not you have healed completely from the experiences you went through prior with your ex’s. As for for views from men, not all of them are the same.. some will care, other won’t.

 

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Hey Oloni are you ever going to do another so mingling soiree? 12. December 2015

Next year!


Hi Oloni, I was wondering if you have any tips for keeping in contact over the christmas break. We mainly talk when we hang out and a bit of texting in between. I’ll be gone for 3 weeks and dont really want it to fizzle out any tips? 12. December 2015

Try fitting phone calls between the time your spent away. Facetime or skype too. The truth is if it’s meant to be things won’t die out.


The Instagram Husband 9. December 2015

Hi Oloni, I had been with my ex for around 3 years but we have been on and off for about the last 7 months. I started talking to a really nice guy, about 3/4 months ago and my ex found out and went crazy (which I would assume anyone would), he told me he thought we were going somewhere. He has given me and ultimatum, but the new guy I like has never done anything wrong, and has so much good qualities. I love my ex but I feel like our relationship has been too up and down to go back. My question is, should I try things with my ex, or turn the page and go for something new? 9. December 2015

First things first. You’re coming across as a relationship hopper. ‘Who can love me more?’ is the vibe I’m getting from your question. If something isn’t working out, you don’t return to keep watching it fail. I’m worried the new guy could be accidentally become a rebound and if he is great for you will things really work out properly, especially as you clearly haven’t moved on from your ex? If you’re sure you want to go for the new guy, then cut off your ex and take things very slowly with the newbie.


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