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People will always judge you no matter what. You could get judged for being a virgin or sleeping with three guys, their opinions aren’t your concern. There are several women who have what they deem to be a high number and still end up in a happy and faithful relationship. Someone who can’t accept that your past doesn’t define who you are, is not someone you want to be with. My concern is whether or not you have healed completely from the experiences you went through prior with your ex’s. As for for views from men, not all of them are the same.. some will care, other won’t. Next year! Try fitting phone calls between the time your spent away. Facetime or skype too. The truth is if it’s meant to be things won’t die out. First things first. You’re coming across as a relationship hopper. ‘Who can love me more?’ is the vibe I’m getting from your question. If something isn’t working out, you don’t return to keep watching it fail. I’m worried the new guy could be accidentally become a rebound and if he is great for you will things really work out properly, especially as you clearly haven’t moved on from your ex? If you’re sure you want to go for the new guy, then cut off your ex and take things very slowly with the newbie.




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