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Hey I have been seeing this guy for a month now, I knew him 7yrs back and I liked him but he didn’t like me. We met coincidentally and click so well,I have never felt so free with anyone else. Sadly his going back to his country soon as his here for masters, he hasn’t made it very official and when I talk about it he comforts me saying he likes me, but doesn’t want a relationship cause he has a child. Well what a stupid excuse, I like him but I don’t really care if we get serious or not which is not usual cause I always care. He still talks to his baby mama well and it seems like that’s the girl he want to marry, I spoke to him about it and he was so shocked that he didn’t say word. He says is confused about is love life, I love our sex life,so good but I don’t know what’s going on between us, and I don’t even really care if we are serious or not. Any advice?
5. November 2015
It sounds like you’re looking for someone to fill an empty void, and you’re not too bothered on whether it’s physically or emotionally. Your friend is going back to his country and has made it clear, that he isn’t looking for anything more right now. Yes you clicked, but there are other people out there who you can click with also. Find them and don’t stress yourself out with this situationship.
Hi Oloni, I’ve been on 2 dates with this guy and he’s not very flirtatious at all. Only a little bit on occasions if I’m lucky. He’s a lovely guy, a gentleman. We talk everyday and he initiates the convos a lot of the time as well as deciding to meet up. But should I be concerned that he’s not very flirtatious and he hasn’t even tried to kiss me?
5. November 2015
It’s been two dates, calm down! If you go on another you can try leaning in, I doubt he’d reject it. He sounds like a gentleman actually. You’re over thinking everything.
Hi Oloni. My boyfriend of a year cheated on me with my bestfriend while she was drunk. She then admits to me that she and him did stuff together (not sex) and eventually me and my boyfriend broke up but i’m still friends with her. I still love my ex although he’s moved away now and I don’t know what to do. Also, should I be mad at my best friend as well? She was very apologetic. My ex says he doesn’t want me back and keeps telling me to move on, I’m clueless and need help.
5. November 2015
Your friend was out of line, drunk or not..she did something many would find unforgivable. But if you can move forward and you truly believe she’s sorry, then move on with everything that includes letting go of your ex.
Hi Oloni, you amazing diva! Girl, I am a virgin. Not going to say my age because I don’t think that’s important. The thing is I am so ready to lose my virginity. But the the truth is, I’m not the prettiest of girls. I’m a bit on the bigger and I am so shy, scratch that, rather very insecure. What advice would you give me?
5. November 2015
You have to find your confidence, and make sure you’re having sex with someone you feel comfortable around and most of all trust. So what you’re on the bigger side? Women who are rounder, enjoy great sex too!
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