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I’m so sorry to hear this as no one deserves to be in an abusive relationship. Sadly this isn’t something I can personally give you advice on, but I do think you should speak to a therapist. Here’s a link that might be able to help. http://www.counselling-directory.org.uk/domestic-violence.html Heya, great on you for letting her know how you feel… but now the ball is in her court. So step back, if she’s still going through things with her ex, you don’t want to be the rebound so give her a bit so she can make up her own mind as to what she wants to do about the situation. Sometimes when you focus on climaxing alone you never quite get the orgasm you want. This is perfectly natural and happens to a lot of us. We just want to hit that spot and be done. But try making love to yourself instead, don’t just dive into things, take it slowly. Try getting a new toys that has more than one setting and speed, so perhaps some new rabbit ears. Start off on the lowest setting and as you get even more turned on let it get higher and higher. I hope that helps. You have every right to be angry, what she did was very shallow. The ring is supposed to be a token of the new commitment you wish to have with her and the fact she replaced it with money signs instead speaks volumes of her character. I understand there are women who want to have that huge rock, but this wasn’t how it should have been done. The fact she’s bold enough to ask you pay for this is also quite bad imo. Please talk to your fiancee asap and express how you feel, you need to sit her down and communicate, especially if you’re about to get married.



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