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I’m really sorry to hear about this and I know you must feel really bummed out, but you’re going to have to have the conversation with him about it. If you were a virgin before you were sexual with him, then it;s clear it came from him and he needs to be seen to asap. Heya, this is a very common feeling, but sadly I’m not trained to give you the help you need and deserve. I would advise going to a clinic and asking if you’d be able to talk to a professional. Arguing with someone you’re in a relationship is very normal. It happens, if you didn’t argue, I’d be a bit worried. However, there’s a point where it does become unhealthy if it becomes too often. The both of you need to tackle why it’s happening so frequently and discuss it properly. Come with new ways to address issues, speak, don’t shout, explain, don’t yell. Learn how to communicate to get out of this rut. I’ll be honest with you, because with the advice I give I try to keep it ‘real’. . A guy who has a child on the way should not be on your radar right now. Sure you can keep seeing him if you wish too, but do not expect the same amount of attention from him that you would with a guy who isn’t in this position.



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