Break ups are always tough especially when they were for a very long period of time. You were together for four years and now this person you gave your all to is suddenly no longer in your life. The reason you can put it at the back of your mind at work is because you’re keeping yourself busy. One of the best ways I’ve advised many of my clients to get through a break up is by keeping their time preoccupied constantly. You have to be busy non-stop, so busy you don’t have time to reminisce for too long. What do you enjoy doing in your spare time? What have you always wanted to do with your spare time? Find ways to make sure you’re busy. Remember it’s okay to think about the relationship, it’d be hard to block it out completely, but use this method to help the pain reduce. I hope that helps!

Nothing positive is coming from this situation. The man you think he is, is a lie. He has someone else, so whether you like it or not, you know you need to confront this and break things off asap.

You really shouldn’t lie about your age, it’s irresponsible and can put people into trouble especially if you’re a minor. You know what you have to do.

If you’ve been dating for 3 months and he isn’t what you want in a man in terms of ambitions, do not start trying to see the potential in him because of the other things.

After four months of consistent dating you should really know where things are heading.