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READ: Are Prenups An Insurance Policy On Marriage? 17. November 2015

I lost my virginity to a guy 7/8 months ago and haven’t had sex since. Earlier this month I had some issues down there and went to a sexual health clinic and found I had Genital warts which has really upset/angered me, the lady told me it could pop up months after and I’m now doing the treatment (the first was painful af). It’s been so long do I tell him? (He was my first) I’m a bit embarrassed and don’t really want a awkward convo 17. November 2015

I’m really sorry to hear about this and I know you must feel really bummed out, but you’re going to have to have the conversation with him about it. If you were a virgin before you were sexual with him, then it;s clear it came from him and he needs to be seen to asap.


I was seeing a guy a couple months back for a year and I got pregnant, I got rid as I was too young and we both weren’t ready. Shortly after this me and the guy went our separate ways. How do I officially move on from this. I always find myself asking “what if”.. I semi regret having the abortion and I miss the guy. How do I move on? 17. November 2015

Heya, this is a very common feeling, but sadly I’m not trained to give you the  help you need and deserve. I would advise going to a clinic and asking if you’d be able to talk to a professional.


Hey, I know the night be a very broad question but how many time would you say it is normal to argue/disagreement with your partner. Only, me and my gf always argue, like say 2 a week and I’m starting to get concerned 17. November 2015

Arguing with someone you’re in a relationship is very normal. It happens, if you didn’t argue, I’d be a bit worried. However, there’s a point where it does become unhealthy if it becomes too often. The both of you need to tackle why it’s happening so frequently and discuss it properly. Come with new ways to address issues, speak, don’t shout, explain, don’t yell. Learn how to communicate to get out of this rut.


Basically I’m talking to this guy, we’ve been talking for the past few months, however he’s expecting a child… We’re both at uni I don’t know if I should carry on seeing him or if I should slowly back away, am I really ready to get serious with this guy if he has a child, baby mamma drama, priorities… ? What do I do ? 17. November 2015

I’ll be honest with you, because with the advice I give I try to keep it ‘real’. .  A guy who has a child on the way should not be on your radar right now. Sure you can keep seeing him if you wish too, but do not expect the same amount of attention from him that you would with a guy who isn’t in this position.


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