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Hi Oloni, you amazing diva! Girl, I am a virgin. Not going to say my age because I don’t think that’s important. The thing is I am so ready to lose my virginity. But the the truth is, I’m not the prettiest of girls. I’m a bit on the bigger and I am so shy, scratch that, rather very insecure. What advice would you give me? 5. November 2015

You have to find your confidence, and make sure you’re having sex with someone you feel comfortable around and most of all trust. So what you’re on the bigger side? Women who are rounder, enjoy great sex too!


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Hey Oloni, I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years. I recently found out he slept with my cousin 2 years ago. I really do not know what to do about this. I just feel betrayed and humiliated because people around me, who witnessed their affair were tried to tell me about this, and I found it hard to believe then. How I found out, is through his cousin who admires me and cared enough for my dignity (female). 2. November 2015

Hey. if you haven’t spoken about to your partner about this new information, you must do asap. There isn’t any excuse under the sun that can justify his behaviour, but it’s important, you confront what you’ve been told. I would suggest after speaking you give yourself some space from him so you can figure out what you want to do about the relationship.


Hi, in relation to your tweet about communication with your other half. Do you think there is a difference between you feeling like you’re ‘nagging’ and ‘schooling’ If you get what I am saying 29. October 2015

I don’t know what you mean by ‘schooling’ but as for nagging. Yes. There’s a way to make it clear that something is bothering you without seeming like a ‘nag’.

If youre in a situation and your other half does something you don’t like, wait for an appropriate time to let it be known. Sit down explain how it made you feel … However, if this is something you have repeatedly addressed they no longer become the problem you do.


Hi, I have been with my partner for 6 years. It’s a long distance relationship of sorts. I live in London and he lives in Leeds but we have always managed to make it work. Sometimes he confides in me about how lonely he can get as we only get to see each other once a month fit a couple of days. I made a comment that if he needed he could sleep with other women. I said I didn’t want to know if he did. Recently he told me that he kissed another woman. Do I have the right to be upset because at this present moment I feel nothing but indifference toward him. 26. October 2015

It’s great that you’re both open and honest with each other. Regardless of what you gave him permission to do, you can’t help how you feel and this is what you need to voice out to him. You have to be upfront and let him know that although you said you’d be okay with it, it still made you feel a type of way. My guess is he didn’t want to keep it from you even though you said you didn’t want to know. Once you’ve had a chat, see how you can move forward and what you both can do to make your ldr stronger.


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