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Hi Oloni, I feel like my boyfriend is never there for my emotional needs. Recently I’ve been going through a very difficult time and I would’ve thought he of all people will be there for me to comfort me and help me. However, he hasn’t done so much as to check up on me to see how I’m doing; or he’ll make it about him and cause unnecessary arguments. How am I to deal with this because I don’t think I don’t take much more of this.
11. November 2015
You have to sit down and let out your feeling to him. Discuss this without any arguments. Communicating is very necessary for a relationship to work, even when things are very rocky. You both have to figure out a way to solve this problem, if you want things to carry on.
Hi oloni, I’ve been with a guy for 2 years now and I made a mistake and cheated on him. He took me back but however It’s changed the dynamics of our relationship. For example, I was previously the dominant one but now it’s the other way round. He says he loved me but will never forgive me for this. What should I do? I love him.
11. November 2015
This isn’t going to work if he has stated he’s never going forgive you.
Hi! So I’ve recently started liking a guy only to find out that he’s got back together with his ex. I don’t want to stop being friends with him but at the same time I hate know that I like someone who’s in a relationship. Do I avoid seeing him when he’s in town or continue the friendship at the risk of liking him even more?
11. November 2015
If you have feelings for someone who’s committed to someone else, do yourself a favour and keep a distance. You’re only torturing yourself by remaining in this position.
Few days ago I went to one of my male friends house I’ve known him for years and been together sexual and somewhat so went to his house now got high we were chilling and so what had sex first time it was all good my mind wasn’t really in it the second time he was trying to take of my trousers and that when I was repeating no he just didn’t listen he was on top of me and I could not get up he was kissing me and that but again I wasn’t in to it I was telling him no but he still wouldn’t get up he was proper scaring me I don’t know whether I brought it on myself or maybe because I was high he wants a relationship and what but after what I saw a few days ago I am proper scared this is the first time we’ve ever got high like this and so I don’t know if it’s because of that but I’ve seen him in a completely different light
11. November 2015
You said the word ‘No’ and he still carried on, you have to speak to someone professional about this and stay away from this guy. You aren’t to blame at all, despite being high, that’s still not a reason for you to have been forced to do something you decided you didn’t want to do. I understand you’re probably in shock, but please do seek help.
READ: Sex And The Secrets: The Last Time
9. November 2015
We didn’t say it. We didn’t have to. We both knew what this was. The end of the road. The closing of the curtains. The sun setting on everything that we were, everything we weren’t and everything that two people like us could never be to one another.
This was the last time we would reside in the world we built together from the scraps of ourselves that we offered up. Three years, four months and seventeen days about to be packed up, stored away and eventually forgotten as if we’d never existed. Three years, four months and seventeen days of 2am phone calls, half assed ‘How are you’s to ease our way into the ‘Are you free tonight? I wanna see you’s, time … Read more HERE
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