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Hi Oloni – so I’m 22 y/o never kissed or had a boyfriend before. I don’t want to be vain lol but I’m not physically unattractive as I’ve had attention from guys before (I know many will assume maybe I’m fat or something lol) anyway there’s a guys I like at work and I want to let him know to see where it goes. Any tips on how to let a guy know you like him when you’ve got limited experience. Guys what you find this unattractive if a girl was direct with you?
17. October 2015
There’s nothing wrong with showing an interest in someone. Ask him out for drinks but make sure there’s at least a foundation of a friendship.
I am 18 and currently with a 29 year old. He has a go at me for doing things he does – ie going out and talking to people. I know he has been cheated on in the past and has trust issues, and I have done things wrong but we have worked our way through. Suddenly he doesn’t wanna see me as much, and he’s getting in extreme moods with me if I do things without asking him first. I don’t want to lose him, but I don’t know how much longer I can do this. Help please?
17. October 2015
Is he your dad or your boyfriend? Quite frankly, you don’t need his permission for nowt. Have a conversation with him and remind him of this. If things aren’t working out re-think this relationship.
hi oloni me and my ex broke up and we did not speak for almost for almost a year but then we started speaking again and since then we’ve done sexual things twice the first time it was awkward and we didnt speak for a little while but i didnt care because i didnt have feelings for him. however the second time it wasnt awkward at all and we kinda clicked and now i’ve caught some feelings. we still spoke after that but i havent spoken to him in like four days now. i really want us to start something again but im not sure if hes interested. what do i do?
12. October 2015
You’ve opened up a can of worms, but what’s left for you to do is speak up and let him know how you feel.
hi oloni, I’ve basically been speaking to this guy since December last year and around March we stopped talking because conversations were getting dead and the banter and the liveliness of the convo was no longer there anymore. He now has a girlfriend and he started dating her around March when we were talking on and off. I need advice and help on what I should do and whether or not I should forget about him
12. October 2015
You need to move on with your life, he is not the only man to have walked this earth and he has a girlfriend. Girl? Come on!
My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me because we have been having arguments , we usually have arguments but it’s never been this bad . Anyway , he said he is unhappy . I just assumed the arguments would stop and this was just a phase in our relationship we would get out of . He is the love of my life and has taught me many things . He also thought me how to be a better person . Please how do I show him that we can get past it and we should just try .
12. October 2015
Maybe you need to listen to him. If he’s unhappy you have to leave him alone, especially right now as you’ve just broken up. You can’t force him to be with you and you can’t force the relationship to work if you kept arguing. The relationship itself becomes unhealthy. Spend some time a apart for a few weeks and if you still feel strongly ask him to meet up with you for closure and hear how he feels.
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