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There’s this stupid sex myth that when you lose your virginity, your bed will look like a crime scene or you won’t be able to walk for days. It’s all nonsense. Everyone has different experiences when they lose their virginity. You could have probably felt more relaxed, the foreplay could have been better in comparison to last time. . there are numerous things. What you both should do is jump on google and research. You’ll see several other people with similar experiences. Having sex with a dude then sleeping with his friend whilst he’s asleep? Girl just let this ship sail. It’s a messy position especially if they’re friends now lol – Unless you wanted something really serious to come from this, tick it off your bucket list and don’t worry about it. Give him another chance, if it’s deffo BO, you might have to let this go. It’s not your job as a date to tell a guy that he needs to sort out his hygiene issues. Not at all, as long you’re not using it as a method to heal. I’ve read up on how men and women get out of a relationship and use sex to try to make themselves better.




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