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Hi.. So I’m trying to introduce my bf to some sex toys just to help keep our sex life interesting but I’m afraid it might hurt his ego a bit. Is there anyway I could talk to him about using toys without him feeling a type of way? 16. January 2016

Sex toys compliment your partner and your sex life. First talk to him about it and ask if he’d like to experiment, you could search couple sex toys together .. something like a cock ring, these help heighten orgasms for him and also stimulate your clitoris.  See here http://lip.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=2&aff_id=283&url_id=113


READ: 7 Reasons To Love Your Long-Distance Relationship On Valentine’s Day 16. January 2016

What do you do when someone close continues to do something you don’t like baring in mind you have let them know 15. January 2016

You simply cut them off to protect your peace. This is clearly someone that doesn’t respect your boundaries and the only thing you have control over is what you do. Cutting someone off doesn’t have to be messy but just communicate less and focus on yourself and your other close friends more. If you feel like you’ve explained yourself enough, you don’t even need to give them a warning. Also the more you tolerate the more the person will assume you can’t be that offended.

 

Ebi. A.


Hi, I’ve been currently seeing a guy for about a month now. He calls me everyday and always asks me things like how I feel about him and I tell him I like him. However he hasn’t told me yet how he properly feels about me and what his intentions are. I’ve developed feelings for him and we’ve started to get intimate sexually. Oloni i need your help as I don’t know what to feel about this guy, is he genuine or not? 15. January 2016

Howdy,

Okay a month isn’t that long but life happens haha. Okay, I always think it’s important to mirror the person you’re dealing with. What I mean by that is there AIN’T NOOOO WAIIIII you should be sitting here confused when he’s VERY upfront when it comes to asking you how you feel. So the solution here is to open your mouth just like he’s opening his mouth and if he acts like you’ve crossed any boundaries that’s his problem not yours. Now ask him exactly what he asks you and ask him what his intentions are, maybe not specifically with you but does he want a relationship anytime soon? Then ask him what his specific intentions are with you. Straight forward question. Don’t shuffle stick to it. The only thing is as it’s only been a month most guys will say something along these lines (I definitely like you and I want to SEE WHERE THINGS GO) but you see here’s the thing, as most guys use that line, so do most SHIT MEN. So the only thing you can do is either choose to ride it out and set an expiration date in your head or FALL BACK. Now you can fall back in different ways, you could cut him off completely but I don’t think that’s necessary. What I think you need to do is identify the things that get you sprung quickly and AVOID AVOID AVOID. if that means being intimate with him STOP THAT until there’s clear commitment. If talking to him as often as you do gets you sprung STOP THAT BABES and do that for every single thing you know makes you swoon for a guy. If it means exploring other options (non-sexually since you don’t want to be sprung on more than one guy) date other people but before you do that make him aware of your reasons. So “I’m looking to talk to other people (make it clear you’re just speaking to them) since I don’t want to invest in one situation that potentially isn’t going anywhere” and go forth and prosper. Good luck

 

Ebi A


Hello, I’ve been talking to someone for close to 6 months and I don’t know if the feelings are mutual should I ask ? 15. January 2016

Yupppppp I think you should definitely ask. If you’re a girl, guys get funny with the “what are we” question apparently so 1. don’t give them any prior warning so they can’t run for the hills (you have to trap them you see) and 2. approach it by first stating, “this is where I’m at right now” etc….”just wondering whether you’re on the same page or not”. so in short if you want to take things further make that super clear and ask them what they think. if you’re a guy well thats very awks considering all i’ve said prior to this, well you can use the same approach but I find girls aren’t as picky when it comes to the what are we question so you could just use that. Good luck, if he or she runs. Just go to bed. It works.

 

Ebi A.


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