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Hey Oloni… I moved in with my husband last October after the mother of his kids and ex wife died a few years ago. He has several photos of his ex-wife with the kids around the house, especially the front room and none of his new family. I asked him to remove it as it makes me uncomfortable now I’m his wife. Both his 15 and 17 yo kids are mad. Am I really wrong for this request? I need an outside opinion. 24. January 2016

Oh lord. It’s quite insensitive, yes. That’s the mother of his kids and although it makes you uncomfortable you picked the wrong battle to fight. If I was one of those kids I wouldn’t speak to you either. It’s not just your house. The real issue is you feel excluded and you’d like some family portraits of your own, so instead you should have brought that to husbands attention, not try to get rid of photos including his ex-wife. Have another conversation with him after you’ve thought deeply about this and apologise if you want a happy marriage.

Hi Oloni, me and my boyfriend were having sex and he lost his erection very quickly. What does this mean? lost it 24. January 2016

Losing an erection or being unable to get one during sex is very normal and happens to some guys once in a while. It doesn’t mean much, so I wouldn’t worry if I were you.

Hello Oloni, I follow you on Twitter and always read your articles etc which is why I’ve come on here for your advice. Me and my befriend have been together for two years on and off and every single time he wants me back he puts in so much effort and it makes me think he’s changed and that I need him and that we will be fine but once he’s got me back, it’s like he forgets and reverts back to his old ways. I’ve just had enough of these ups and downs, yes there are more ups than downs but I geinekily feel under appreciated . One of our major issues are that what j deem important he doesn’t and it always causes arguments. I can’t deal with it or get over it, I don’t know how to make him realise my Roth or get him to understand the things that upset me- could you help? 24. January 2016

There’s clearly this vicious cycle that you both have and it’s not working. You have to accept that perhaps this might not be the relationship for you. There’s that quote of how insanity is described. You know, doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a new result. You’re constantly looking for a new result and it’s not happening. You have to understand and come to terms with him not changing, the faster you do the less you’ll honestly be surprised. Th most I can advice, is that you talk about it with him but also take some time out and ask yourself if you can carry on doing /feeling like this forever.

READ: For The Single Women On Valentine’s Day 24. January 2016

There are many times in a woman’s life where she will appreciate being alone but I think it is safe to say that even the most independent of women can’t turn a blind eye to Valentine’s Day – whether loved or loathed – it is undeniably hanging on the tip of tongues as we edge closer towards the date. Love is definitely in the air but during such a relationship-focused celebration where is a single woman’s place on Valentine’s Day?

If you scour the Internet you will be sure to find articles compiling a list of suggestions for a single woman to successfully navigate her way through Valentine’s Day unscathed. For example, … read more HERE

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