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Hey Oloni, my boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now. We no longer stay in the same country he left 3 months ago and we’ve been communicating quite alright but we haven’t spoken for the past 3weeks now, I texted him but he never replied , I really don’t know what to do 1. May 2016

Three whole weeks? Talk to a family member or friend of his to see when they last spoke to him. If it was recent with them he’s ghosted out on you.

Oloni

Hi Oloni and Ebi! My boyfriend’s brother likes me and has tried to sleep with me. I’ve declined but haven’t told my bf because I know he’d probably react violently. His brother is 22 my bf is 24 I’m 22. At first his brother left me alone but it’s been a month and he’s getting more persistent. How do I make him stop? 1. May 2016

You need to speak up about it and perhaps get some proof of you warning off his brother? Record voice conversations of his Judas ways. I know you said he’d react violently and I couldn’t help question who towards? If it’s to you, then I don’t even think you should be with such a person. Before you tell him explain that his brothers behaviour has been going on for a while and you didn’t know how to go about opening up about it. It’s a difficult situation and I’m sorry you’re in it.

Oloni

I live in a pretty liberal part of the US, and for a variety of reasons one of my exes moved in with me as a roommate about a year ago. Household wise we work well together splitting bills, cooking and cleaning (better roommate than boyfriend but since he’s an ex it’s pretty obvious the romance wasn’t for us). unfortunately its tanking my dating. After a few men got frighteningly upset when they “found out” I’ve started brining it up usually on date one but even those who keep seeing me ultimately get mad and pick a fight about it but none of them can explain why. The last one was going on about how it meant he couldn’t come over to my place because of it and that wasn’t cool, even though he didn’t expect it but still and I’m like this is our Second date! I’m not sleeping with you or anyone which isn’t your business anyway because we basically just met so why are making a big deal out of this! No answer. He texted apologies and I didn’t respond but it’s getting a little old to have this be my standard date expierience now. Help? 1. May 2016

This is so tricky, but the honest truth is several people would get put off if they heard someone they were dating is sharing accommodation with an ex, even if your relationship today is platonic as hell. The truth is you have to decide what to do. There will be that unicorn out there who may not have an issue with your living arrangement, but wouldn’t it be wise to give yourself a better chance into the dating world by not being in this position? That’s just my personal opinion. I’ve always said if you want new results, you’ll have to DO something new yourself to get them.

Oloni

I recently found out the man I have been casually dating has a fiancé. He is to be married in less than a month. If I were his soon to be wife, I would want to know. Do you think I should tell her? 1. May 2016

No. Just move on.

Oloni

Hi oloni I met this boy online a year ago and we clicked straight away, things were good and I was falling in love with him however he has a really bad temper and starts arguments all the time about my male friends the clothes I wear etc. He tells me he loves me and I thinks he does but we still haven’t met bc he lives in Bristol and I live in Leeds. I really don’t know if I should keep talking To him he says really horrible things when we fight can you even love someone you’ve never physically met? And is it worth me putting up a fight in order to save “us” considering this is not an actual relationship? Ive become too attached to him and the thought of losing him terrifies me. What should I do 🙁 26. April 2016

Hey,

Leave him. It’s been a year and you’re in love with a guy that lives in the same UK you live in, that you haven’t met, who has a scary habit of policing everything concerning your life and speaks to you horribly and has a bad temper, so clearly has anger management problems? Girl, you need to let this one go, as hurt as you may be, leave this one. You can’t lose what you didn’t have in the first place. Work on yourself and healing and eventually find someone who respects you. Don’t ever shortchange yourself in this life. A few practical steps, block him on everything, work on your passions, surround yourself with encouraging friends, a bit of retail therapy doesn’t hurt and so on.

Ebi

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