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why get another advice writer if you still don’t answer all dilemmas?
1. May 2016
Because we get several every day and we have lives. If you want a quick and honest response, open up your wallet/purse and book a call here. Ask Oloni isn’t a charity.
Hey Oloni, So I’ve been dating this guy for about 3 months now and he recently dropped the L bomb on me which was nice. However the issue is that he won’t allow me to see where he lives. He says he has messy and annoying housemates but I believe there’s more to it. I’ve been patient about it but it puts a strain on our relationship because everytime we meet it has to be outdoors in a bar or pub which gets expensive. He’s also acting shifty, whenever he calls me he’s always outside or in the bathroom- never in his room which leads me to think someone is there with him. I’ve confronted him about the issues and he’s obviously saying that he isn’t hiding anything from me but it’s all just weird! I decided to give him an ultimatum to let me see or theres no point in us being together and he chose for us to end things. Am I being over the top in thinking that somethings definitely not right or am I reading into it too much? Aside from this he is a lovely person so I’m stuck on what to do.
1. May 2016
I don’t want to jump to conclusions, but it really does sound like he has a wife and family and you might have been a mistress. He chose to end things because he didn’t want you to see his house? LOL what the absolute hell? The L bomb means nothing if he can end a relationship this quickly.
I think you should move on.
Oloni
Hey Oloni, new fan on this side. Needed your help with my own “dating life actually. As an introvert who generally has spent a majority of his time indoors, tell me, how does one actually go about establishing a FWB kinda thing? haven’t really got it down and stuff, any and all help will be appreciated.
1. May 2016
There are several ways! A popular one, especially if you rarely leave your house is using a dating app aimed at people who are looking for hook ups.
Oloni
I’m 24 and a virgin female is that bad? I have no reason why I did not loose it, but I hear guys dont like virgins which sucks cause I want to have sex now
1. May 2016
There’s absolutely NOTHING wrong with being 24 and a virgin. If you feel like having sex, do it for yourself and not for a male approval. Men don’t even know what they want, a lot of them claim to want women who aren’t that sexually active, but expect a porn star in bed. Girl, do what you want for YOU.
Oloni
Hi Oloni, me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7 months. 4 months ago i caught him talking to another girl and seeing her behind my back. I really lost all trust from him and i went down the wrong path. I decided to give him a chance and work it out. recently i found he is still flirting with other girls behind my back. i dont know what to do. I really love him but I don’t trust him anymore
1. May 2016
7 months? You don’t trust him? Why are you giving yourself a headache. Let him go. Leave.
Oloni
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