Hey love, if you haven’t actually cheated I think it’s just his ego that’s slightly bruised because you had sex between the time you weren’t together. What are you apologising for? Having sex whilst single? There isn’t much you can do though, if he can’t trust you, is there any point in continuing the relationship?

Oloni

Hey girl. It sounds like you’re quite insecure and it’s perfectly fine, you can’t help how you feel and I completely understand it. I feel like this is a conversation you should have with your partner however. Communicate this to him so he’s aware of your thoughts and feelings. Don’t leave him in the dark or else that will only harm things more.

Good luck, and remember to try and not compare you boyfriends past to his present. One of the aims of your relationship is to try and create memories and more experiences together..so do that, he’s all yours!

Oloni

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Hey love, first off  just want to say congratulations for getting yourself clean for 6 months and finding a job. That’s a massive achievement and you should be very proud of yourself. As for your relationship, hun you and I both know that this has gone past repair. The relationship is extremely unhealthy and toxic and you need to get out of it, especially since you mentioned that things get physical.

I understand you want to help and support him, but can you really do all those things if he doesn’t want it for himself? It’s pointless. You’re in a codependent relationship. I would urge that you ask him to seek professional help at this point and leave it at that. Sometimes in life you have to be selfish with yourself and know when to walk away, know when enough is enough, know that if you keep yourself around old and bad habits you may slowly find your way back there again.

I really do hope your partner gets the help he deserves.

Oloni

Hey girl, it seems like you need to have a conversation with him as he sounds like a selfish lover. If you’re getting naked, you can certainly communicate about getting naked. As for him not going down on you, hun some guys just don’t do it and even though I don’t understand them, he was certainly honest and said so from the jump. As for your sore jaw, please stop giving more than you can handle. This whole set up in general is supposed to be a friends with benefits and you don’t sound like you’re getting one. Sort it out!

Oloni

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