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I’m 24 and a virgin female is that bad? I have no reason why I did not loose it, but I hear guys dont like virgins which sucks cause I want to have sex now 1. May 2016

There’s absolutely NOTHING wrong with being 24 and a virgin. If you feel like having sex, do it for yourself and not for a male approval. Men don’t even know what they want, a lot of them claim to want women who aren’t that sexually active, but expect a porn star in bed. Girl, do what you want for YOU.

Oloni

Hi Oloni, me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7 months. 4 months ago i caught him talking to another girl and seeing her behind my back. I really lost all trust from him and i went down the wrong path. I decided to give him a chance and work it out. recently i found he is still flirting with other girls behind my back. i dont know what to do. I really love him but I don’t trust him anymore 1. May 2016

7 months? You don’t trust him? Why are you giving yourself a headache. Let him go. Leave.

Oloni

Hey Oloni, my boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now. We no longer stay in the same country he left 3 months ago and we’ve been communicating quite alright but we haven’t spoken for the past 3weeks now, I texted him but he never replied , I really don’t know what to do 1. May 2016

Three whole weeks? Talk to a family member or friend of his to see when they last spoke to him. If it was recent with them he’s ghosted out on you.

Oloni

Hi Oloni and Ebi! My boyfriend’s brother likes me and has tried to sleep with me. I’ve declined but haven’t told my bf because I know he’d probably react violently. His brother is 22 my bf is 24 I’m 22. At first his brother left me alone but it’s been a month and he’s getting more persistent. How do I make him stop? 1. May 2016

You need to speak up about it and perhaps get some proof of you warning off his brother? Record voice conversations of his Judas ways. I know you said he’d react violently and I couldn’t help question who towards? If it’s to you, then I don’t even think you should be with such a person. Before you tell him explain that his brothers behaviour has been going on for a while and you didn’t know how to go about opening up about it. It’s a difficult situation and I’m sorry you’re in it.

Oloni

I live in a pretty liberal part of the US, and for a variety of reasons one of my exes moved in with me as a roommate about a year ago. Household wise we work well together splitting bills, cooking and cleaning (better roommate than boyfriend but since he’s an ex it’s pretty obvious the romance wasn’t for us). unfortunately its tanking my dating. After a few men got frighteningly upset when they “found out” I’ve started brining it up usually on date one but even those who keep seeing me ultimately get mad and pick a fight about it but none of them can explain why. The last one was going on about how it meant he couldn’t come over to my place because of it and that wasn’t cool, even though he didn’t expect it but still and I’m like this is our Second date! I’m not sleeping with you or anyone which isn’t your business anyway because we basically just met so why are making a big deal out of this! No answer. He texted apologies and I didn’t respond but it’s getting a little old to have this be my standard date expierience now. Help? 1. May 2016

This is so tricky, but the honest truth is several people would get put off if they heard someone they were dating is sharing accommodation with an ex, even if your relationship today is platonic as hell. The truth is you have to decide what to do. There will be that unicorn out there who may not have an issue with your living arrangement, but wouldn’t it be wise to give yourself a better chance into the dating world by not being in this position? That’s just my personal opinion. I’ve always said if you want new results, you’ll have to DO something new yourself to get them.

Oloni

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