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Me and my boyfriend are in non stable relationship. We both do a lot of drugs and it’s been that way for 4 years, but recently I’ve gotten a new job and I’ve been clean for 6 months. I’ve tried to tell him he has to change otherwise I’ll leave but he just thinks I’m boring because I don’t depend on drugs anymore. Most of our arguments are about drug consumption. They get pretty physical and then he takes some and passes out. I want to leave but I feel as though I must support him through this and help him get it right. I know he can do it. 10. May 2016

Hey love, first off just want to say congratulations for getting yourself clean for 6 months and finding a job. That’s a massive achievement and you should be very proud of yourself. As for your relationship, hun you and I both know that this has gone past repair. The relationship is extremely unhealthy and toxic and you need to get out of it, especially since you mentioned that things get physical.

I understand you want to help and support him, but can you really do all those things if he doesn’t want it for himself? It’s pointless. You’re in a codependent relationship. I would urge that you ask him to seek professional help at this point and leave it at that. Sometimes in life you have to be selfish with yourself and know when to walk away, know when enough is enough, know that if you keep yourself around old and bad habits you may slowly find your way back there again.

I really do hope your partner gets the help he deserves.

Oloni

Hey. I have a FWB which I have sex with every so often, we have busy schedules so it’s not as often as I’d like but hey. He’s good in bed and lays a mean pipe but he is kind of greedy and a little boring. He doesn’t do oral which he made clear from the start but the way he loves oral is time consuming lol and jaw sore. It’s usually him pounding till he cums but doesn’t think about what I like and I’m into more rough and more wild but how do I let him know I want to go wild wild and not just suck dick, come then wait for him too lol 10. May 2016

Hey girl, it seems like you need to have a conversation with him as he sounds like a selfish lover. If you’re getting naked, you can certainly communicate about getting naked. As for him not going down on you, hun some guys just don’t do it and even though I don’t understand them, he was certainly honest and said so from the jump. As for your sore jaw, please stop giving more than you can handle. This whole set up in general is supposed to be a friends with benefits and you don’t sound like you’re getting one. Sort it out!

Oloni

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why get another advice writer if you still don’t answer all dilemmas? 1. May 2016

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Hey Oloni, So I’ve been dating this guy for about 3 months now and he recently dropped the L bomb on me which was nice. However the issue is that he won’t allow me to see where he lives. He says he has messy and annoying housemates but I believe there’s more to it. I’ve been patient about it but it puts a strain on our relationship because everytime we meet it has to be outdoors in a bar or pub which gets expensive. He’s also acting shifty, whenever he calls me he’s always outside or in the bathroom- never in his room which leads me to think someone is there with him. I’ve confronted him about the issues and he’s obviously saying that he isn’t hiding anything from me but it’s all just weird! I decided to give him an ultimatum to let me see or theres no point in us being together and he chose for us to end things. Am I being over the top in thinking that somethings definitely not right or am I reading into it too much? Aside from this he is a lovely person so I’m stuck on what to do. 1. May 2016

I don’t want to jump to conclusions, but it really does sound like he has a wife and family and you might have been a mistress. He chose to end things because he didn’t want you to see his house? LOL what the absolute hell? The L bomb means nothing if he can end a relationship this quickly.

I think you should move on.

Oloni

Hey Oloni, new fan on this side. Needed your help with my own “dating life actually. As an introvert who generally has spent a majority of his time indoors, tell me, how does one actually go about establishing a FWB kinda thing? haven’t really got it down and stuff, any and all help will be appreciated. 1. May 2016

There are several ways! A popular one, especially if you rarely leave your house is using a dating app aimed at people who are looking for hook ups.

Oloni

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