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I’m engaged to my girlfriend now, but she cheated on me and got pregnant, because I loved her I stayed and told my family it was mine, I was already engaged to her. Now the child can speak and calls me daddy which makes me very uncomfortable. I want the baby to call me uncle but my parents would wonder why. My parents also love the child like it’s mine but I’m really uncomfortable with the chill calling me daddy, I’ve spoken to her about it. What should I do 11. September 2015

It’s up to you to tell your parents the truth, however the child is a kid and will call any guy that is around the most dad. If it makes you uncomfortable figure out what it is you really want, because you seem really confused and need to talk about this further.


Hi oloni, I’ve started dating this guy on one of our dates he was tipsy and started saying things like he loves me and basically asked me to be his girlfriend… Do I remind him of what he said to me whilst intoxicated or wait and see whether he brings it up again? 11. September 2015

You don’t have to remind him on anything. He was tipsy and obviously had no idea about what he was talking about.


I got trust issues my partner new this before we started going out. I trusted them though but I found out they went on a date with someone else and also had been speaking to other people including their ex! I’ve tried to forgive and forget but I find it hard any of them. They want me to try and work it out but I’m not 100 percent up to the task. But at the same time I don’t wanna give up. What do you suggest!? 11. September 2015

This person sounds incredibly disloyal and is not worthy of any chances. Please leave this alone.


Not sure if this sent as my phone died but how do you know when you’ve fallen out of love 11. September 2015

When you start questioning whether you’ve fallen out of love with a person your normally have. You don’t see them in the same light, they don’t become your world, the deep feelings you once had suddenly disappear.


Hey Oloni, I’m a frequent Twitter commenter and I really like what you do. I’ve been dating my bf for about 6 months now but he’s moving to Canada and I’m in England. He believes we can pull off long distance but I know how horrible it can be, I’m really scared. I don’t want to loose him and everytime I bring it up he assures me we’ll be fine but it still kills me we’ll be far apart from each other. Am I just overreacting or should I do something before we start having issues 11. September 2015

You need to try and have a much more positive attitude on the matter, stop thinking that you’ll lose him and think of ways you can keep in contact. Work out different methods of how you can communicate regularly. Figure and plan when you can visit each other. Long distance can work if YOU both want it to. Plenty of couples have survived it, so  make sure your relationship is part of that.


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