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Hey Oloni, I’ve recently come out of an abusive relationship of almost a year. It totally destroyed my confidence and put my mental and even physical state in torment. Let alone my emotional health. Anyway I have met a guy not too long ago who is kind, gentle and passionate towards me. He’s mentally intimate with me and we have had sex once but it was intimate. He likes me significantly more than I like him. Do you think that I am rushing into anything ?
31. August 2015
It’s only too soon if you think it is, but I will say due to coming out of a relationship recently where you dealt with abuse, you should try and get some professional therapy and counselling
So a guy I was seeing didn’t wanna be serious then we had sex one day and then he said we needed to stop seeing each other because he got a girlfriend. He clearly cheated on her with me and still messaged me recently hinting at something sexual happening between us. What do I do?
31. August 2015
You block and delete his number?
Hi Oloni. My boyfriend recently reached out to his ex after we had a major argument together. he instigated a break up but we got back together barely a day or two after and i forgave him. but hes been in touch with her over a long period of time since we got back together and i found out recently they had been sharing flirty mesages. he says he still loves me and he wants to go the distance and promised to shut her out but dont know what to believe. please help me. things are very weird between us now
31. August 2015
If he was sending her flirty messages while you two were together, then he’s not that serious about you. It’s either that or he’s using her as a plan B. I’s a huge red flag also.
Hi Oloni, I’ve been single for 4 years now after a unexpected breakup. I want to try seeing new people but I feel like I’ve lost interest in love – is there anything you can suggest for me?
31. August 2015
Try to date people and experience that. Go out more, get to know new people change your environment. You don’t have to look for love, but at least try to find someone who can make you happier.
Hi, read your blog everyday!! I’ve been on 3 dates with this guy, all the boxes r being ticked, only problem is he keeps on about me not talking to other guys. He seems to bring up the scenario of cheating A LOT!! Do I carry on or is this a red flag? Help me thank you!
31. August 2015
He’s definitely been involved with women who have cheated on him in the past. It’s more of a sign of trust issues. I’d suggest you tell him your concerns about the matter, take things very slowly.
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