Raving is not a place to meet guys! However I answer this question almost every other day. Grab my EBook and have a read. It covers 100 most asked questions. It’s available here :http://simplyoloni.com/product/100-questions/

A year is enough time to decide if the relationship is worth giving another shot. My honest opinion? No. He’s untrustworthy and  things will get worse if you stick around. Yes you’re emotionally invested, but is it worth the heartache?

I surround myself with different forms of motivation.

The bible says many things and we still do it all. I’m a sinner and I’m sure you are, but what I can also accept is the reality of things which is young women having sex! I not only promote fornication, I promote healthy consensual fornication, I help individuals get in touch with their sexuality, I give answers some women are unsure of when it comes to sex. Do you know how awesome that feels? I help those who have have been sexually abused and have been too afraid to talk about it. I do a lot more than just ‘promote fornication’. The name of my blog is also called ‘Simply Oloni’ meaning I write this blog from my own perspective. My religion, faith and spirituality has nothing to do with my blog of 8 years and never has. Hence why women of different cultural and religious background and beliefs have been able to reach out to me.

Enjoy the rest of your day 🙂

There’s nothing wrong with having a FWB so long as you know yourself well enough to not catch feelings. Don’t choose someone you have a great relationship with as it can just potentially ruin it. Be safe and get tested!