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Hello Oloni. I’ve been with my girlfriend for 2 years(only 18 now) and shes my best friend and i really love her but i haven’t experienced any other girls and i am really curious so I don’t know what to do, beacuse i don’t want to cheat because i could never do that to her but i dont want to lose her either!
11. September 2015
Then you have to think carefully about what you really want. It’s okay to be curious, but you mustn’t always act on curiosity.
Hi, I met a guy at the gym 2 months ago and I feel like I’m leading him on or using him because he’s helping me reach my goals physically, however i know he wants a romantic relationship and I don’t. He’s 28 and I’m 20. He really likes me but atm I don’t feel the same, though we get along really well. I feel like I may be giving him mixed signals. I don’t want to lose the friendship but currently don’t want a relationship. What would be the best way to tell him without ruining it?
11. September 2015
You tell him without saying a thing. You have to learn to keep a professional relationship instead of a friendly one so he gets the hint. If you’re texting each other or on the phone when it has nothing to do with training, then stop. Anything that he does that may seem suggestive such as asking you out on a date you turn it down.
I’m engaged to my girlfriend now, but she cheated on me and got pregnant, because I loved her I stayed and told my family it was mine, I was already engaged to her. Now the child can speak and calls me daddy which makes me very uncomfortable. I want the baby to call me uncle but my parents would wonder why. My parents also love the child like it’s mine but I’m really uncomfortable with the chill calling me daddy, I’ve spoken to her about it. What should I do
11. September 2015
It’s up to you to tell your parents the truth, however the child is a kid and will call any guy that is around the most dad. If it makes you uncomfortable figure out what it is you really want, because you seem really confused and need to talk about this further.
Hi oloni, I’ve started dating this guy on one of our dates he was tipsy and started saying things like he loves me and basically asked me to be his girlfriend… Do I remind him of what he said to me whilst intoxicated or wait and see whether he brings it up again?
11. September 2015
You don’t have to remind him on anything. He was tipsy and obviously had no idea about what he was talking about.
I got trust issues my partner new this before we started going out. I trusted them though but I found out they went on a date with someone else and also had been speaking to other people including their ex! I’ve tried to forgive and forget but I find it hard any of them. They want me to try and work it out but I’m not 100 percent up to the task. But at the same time I don’t wanna give up. What do you suggest!?
11. September 2015
This person sounds incredibly disloyal and is not worthy of any chances. Please leave this alone.
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