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Hi Oloni. I have a problem lol. I’m having problems making myself orgasm. I used to be able and quite quickly at that but I dunno why I can’t anymore. Have a few bullets and tried the rotating rampant rabbit but I only ever used the ears cos it didn’t fit lol It’s getting frustrating and upsetting now. Do you any tips for me please?? 27. November 2015

Sometimes when you focus on climaxing alone you never quite get the orgasm you want. This is perfectly natural and happens to a lot of us. We just want to hit that spot and be done. But try making love to yourself instead, don’t just dive into things, take it slowly. Try getting a new toys that has more than one setting and speed, so perhaps some new rabbit ears. Start off on the lowest setting and as you get even more turned on let it get higher and higher. I hope that helps.


READ: Cosmo Blog Awards 2015 WINNER for Best Sex And Relationships Simply Oloni 21. November 2015

I proposed to my gf after 4 years together. I’ll admit the ring was quite small and only cost about £400 but i figured the wedding was going to cost nuff. She accepted my proposal but two days later she said she didn’t like the ring and wanted to return it. She came back with a 3k ring and wants me to pay.What should i do? do i have any right to be angry? I 21. November 2015

You have every right to be angry, what she did was very shallow. The ring is supposed to be a token of the new commitment you wish to have with her and the fact she replaced it with money signs instead speaks volumes of her character. I understand there are women who want to have that huge rock, but this wasn’t how it should have been done. The fact she’s bold enough to ask you pay for this is also quite bad imo. Please talk to your fiancee asap and express how you feel, you need to sit her down and communicate, especially if you’re about to get married.


hi, i think my boyfriend wants me to be more like his mum. His mum doesn’t work, she’s basically a well presented housewife. We have been dating for like 1 year now, at first he used to give me money for nails and stuff i thought he was bein sweet. But now he says i go uni too much and i should stay to cook and clean. I never want to be a housewife but otherwise hes perfect what should i do? 21. November 2015

I don’t want to be insulting, but if your partner really makes comments on how often you attend university, he’s an absolute idiot. However, he’s your idiot and you have to speak to him about it. I do think these are red flags, but just make sure you have a chat about it and let him know that this bothers you.


Ive been speaking to this guy every day for the past 10 months and we are still not anything. He calls me his ‘wife’ but nothing has been made offical? I just home im not wasting my time. 21. November 2015

Talk to him and ask if the both of you are exclusively dating.


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