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My boyfriend is very conscious of his penis size, there was a time when he flat out told me he has a small penis. To me it is under average but it does satisfy me and tbh I’m not even bothered but when he’s around me he hides it for example when he comes out the shower he’s always covering up changing like he’s changing in p.e lol but I want him too be comfortable around me and doesn’t have too be shy anymore. What can I do so he is, or do I leave it so it’s doesn’t get even more uncomfortable I just want him too be secure and know he doesn’t have too be so self conscious. 27. November 2015

I don’t know how long you’ve been dating for, but I do know that it’s no secret that a lot of men take pride in the size of their penis. Have a talk with him and let him know that he doesn’t need to be insecure about his penis. I do also feel that the longer you’re with each other the more comfortable he’ll be around you.

Hi oloni i know it is abit late but i wanted to ask about domestic violence, my 2 past relationship my partners were violent to me (i’ve never hit them) the relationship is nice at first but becomes abusive i’m worried about getting in any relationship because i feel i don’t really know who people are anymore if they’re good or just pretending oks help 27. November 2015

I’m so sorry to hear this as no one deserves to be in an abusive relationship. Sadly this isn’t something I can personally give you advice on, but I do think you should speak to a therapist. Here’s a link that might be able to help.

http://www.counselling-directory.org.uk/domestic-violence.html

Hi, I’m basically in the friend zone I’ve known this girl for over 5years and recently (this year) I’ve really been looking at her in a different way, the last few months we been going out a lot more and getting to know each other better. So recently picked up the courage to tell her I basically love her, didn’t go as smooth as I would like but I did it. She said she has feelings for me but is in a complicated stage with a guy she’s been seeing on and off. I told her I will still chase her, she didn’t make it clear if that was ok. I will fight for her but I don’t want to end up being annoying should I take a step back to give her time to think or continue to be me and hope for the best and should I ask again in a couple months? 27. November 2015

Heya, great on you for letting her know how you feel… but now the ball is in her court. So step back, if she’s still going through things with her ex, you don’t want to be the rebound so give her a bit so she can make up her own mind as to what she wants to do about the situation.

Hi Oloni. I have a problem lol. I’m having problems making myself orgasm. I used to be able and quite quickly at that but I dunno why I can’t anymore. Have a few bullets and tried the rotating rampant rabbit but I only ever used the ears cos it didn’t fit lol It’s getting frustrating and upsetting now. Do you any tips for me please?? 27. November 2015

Sometimes when you focus on climaxing alone you never quite get the orgasm you want. This is perfectly natural and happens to a lot of us. We just want to hit that spot and be done. But try making love to yourself instead, don’t just dive into things, take it slowly. Try getting a new toys that has more than one setting and speed, so perhaps some new rabbit ears. Start off on the lowest setting and as you get even more turned on let it get higher and higher. I hope that helps.

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