You have to try and figure out what is more important to you. The sexual chemistry you have with other fella or the guy you gel well with outside of the sheets. Remember it’s not always the size of a guys penis which determines whether or not he’s great in bed. So maybe you can try doing other things to make the experience better with the guy you’re dating.

If you don’t want the same things you move on and don’t look back. He’s trying to have his cake and eat it, don’t allow him to.

You tell him to stop and when you’re ready to go again find out a new way for him to climax.

This sounds like too much already, it seems like you got closure (the arguing) and you both let out some steam which is fine, but do you really need your past back in your present? Will anything positive come out of this situation, especially with the history you both have? I usually tell people to talk to the other person in the picture but right now I want you to have a conversation with yourself and decide if this is the right move.

With Christmas drawing closer and closer I know several women are going to e-mail or send a Direct Message to me asking what to get their naughty or nice boyfriends this holiday. To help compile this I nagged my boyfriend to give me ideas and accidentally let slip what I intended on buying him. (Seriously Oloni?) Lol welp.. Read more here