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Hi Oloni. I’m 21 and I’ve never had a boyfriend or been in a serious committed relationship. I know this may sound weird but I’m quite shy around guys or people in general that I don’t know so I come off rude or stuck up to others but I’m just not comfortable around strangers. However, I have a friend that I went to 6th form with and we hang out in the same group and I think he likes me. He’s always saying I’m his wife and we’re gonna have kids and stuff like that but I don’t know if he’s joking or he’s trying to hint to me he likes me but this only happens when I see him. He’s never tried to message me or get my number so I added him on snapchat and I’m too scared to say something first. Do you think he’s hinting to me or am I reading to deep into it. I don’t know if I should just take the chance and message him first or not? Thanks 16. December 2015

It’s perfectly normal to be shy so don’t worry too much about that. Perhaps when you’re able to get to know someone more you’ll come out of your shell. As for the guy you added on snapchat, I would suggest you message him and start off a simple conversation. If you’d like to talk further see here: https://simplyoloni.com/relationship-coaching-packages/

READ: What It’s Really Like As A Phone Sex Operator 15. December 2015

Mia* a 23-year-old university graduate from Tottenham speaks to me about being a phone sex operator when she was 18.

‘No caller was ever the same. You’d get men who wanted to get their load off and just nut to your voice over the phone and hang up immediately, but sometimes you got lads who just fancied a nice chat.’ …Read more HERE

READ: Heels Off 12. December 2015

If you haven’t heard about the new YouTube chat show, you’re hearing about it now. A few months ago myself and four other awesome ladies (Rita Balogun, Amina Habeeb, Mercedes Benson and Ashley Watt) teamed up with Josh Bridge to create Heels Off. We spoke about relationships, health, beauty, careers and filmed everything in …Read more HERE

Hi Oloni. Feeling really down this morning….I was in a relationship (on/off) for almost three years. The relationship started with a few lies. He hid away from me the fact he was an illegal immigrant, trying to get stay in the UK. It all made sense to me because I would always ask him about us going on holidays and he would tell me he doesn’t want to go. ALL THE TIME. Anyways, I let that slide anyway because I was with him because I loved him. Then he would demand us to get married so that he can remain in the UK and it started to put a lot of pressure on me. I lost my virginity to him, I’ve supported him, and tried to be a good girlfriend but because I wasn’t willing to marry him in order for him to have a stay, he has turned against me. He has been emotionally abusive, calling me all manners of names, he would hit me when we have arguements. He will make comments like he wish he went out with my sister instead of me. He even admitted that he was sleeping behind my back and that there is another girl he is seeing. I am really hurt, I cannot function. I need some advice please. Thank you 12. December 2015

This guy has been mentally and physically abusive towards you. You need to speak to a close friend or a family member you trust…because this relationship sounds like it was a huge torture. I’m sorry you had to go through this and I really hope you understand that this guy doesn’t deserve another chance or even space in your life. Please block his number and if you have him on social media, there too. You need to focus on how you can repair the damage that has been done, by moving on from him. It won’t be easy,HOWEVER it is POSSIBLE.. but as well as speaking to someone close I would advise you seek some therapy as I do believe professional help is also needed with this situation.

Hi.Is it normal for buff girls to be hoes these days? I feel like I don’t fit in because girls my age or younger 17-20 are always posting about sex on twitter.Girls these days are talking about having multiple partners like its normal but a few years ago it wasnt acceptable and its always them girls who think their buff and better than everyone.I feel like im way behind. 12. December 2015

I think younger women are being more vocal about their sexuality because it empowers them, it doesn’t make them a ‘hoe’. This is something I wish was more acceptable when I was younger as a lot of women were looked down on for just simply discussing things men are praised for. You may not be the same, you might be more private about your sexual experiences, women who are similar to you are still out there, just because that’s all you see, doesn’t mean that, that’s all there is.

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‘No caller was ever the same. You’d get men who wanted to get their load off and just nut to your voice over the phone and hang up immediately, but sometimes you got lads who just fancied a nice chat.’ …Read more HERE

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