I can completely understand why you must be livid right now. The guy you were messing with is pathetic and was clearly in it for the physical. The fact that he had a girlfriend all along is obviously going to be a hard pill to swallow. Should you tell her? No. It won’t do anything, as far as she’s concerned you’ll just be the ‘crazy’ girl who never got the ring, especially after that announcement. You mentioned that you were emotionally broken and felt guilty, so I’d suggest you speak to a therapist as seek professional help as it’s very common for some women to feel this way after a termination. As for him.. just be glad you weren’t the ‘Mrs’.

On Friday night I attended the Dream Nation Gala, one of the most anticipated events created by founder Claud Williams, especially after it’s success last year. Over 400 people attended and boy was I glad to be one of them. Women came out in their most chic ball gowns, that were tailored all the way to the ground, while the men entered the building in their suits and tuxes. Might I add how dapper a lot of you looked.. read more HERE

Christmas is just around the corner and there is a drop in the temperature outside along with the decline in our bank balances – yet that still doesn’t deter from the excitement towards the upcoming festivities. How could it? The food, decorations, Christmas movies – but it always feels better when you are doing it with the people you love and first Christmases with your partner can amplify these feelings of excitement so why not list three of the best things about spending Christmas with your man?… read more HERE

If you’ve had a complicated relationship, you should really figure out why. Have you made her aware of your feelings? You need to do all of these things, because it feels like you’re jumping the gun a bit.

If you’re only seeing him, why stress yourself out on something that clearly isn’t mutual? Let this one go my dear.