Hey,

It all depends on what you’re comfortable with. Personally, I would lock it off and keep it moving. But that’s because there would be no way I would have ever made it clear that I was okay with such behaviour in the first place and I’d personally find it difficult to trust someone like that. But if you do choose to continue, (everyone’s trust is set up differently) it’s definitely time to set boundaries and ask her where the both of you stand.

Ebi

It’s not a weird dilemma at all. There are several people who have this thought and issue every single day. Talking about faith and sexuality has even become a huge topic on a lot of social media platforms as of recent, mostly to do with celibacy. I actually plan to put out a video soon sharing my thoughts.. but back to you dear. Do what feels right!! I’ve usually heard that once people begin to walk in faith/become born again their lifestyle begins to change, the way they walk, they way the talk, the way the dress, the way they smile.. etc. Now, I’m personally all for those who take pride in their sexuality, may it be celibacy or having consensual healthy sex till their knees get numb. So do what FEELS right to you. It’s a known fact that sex outside of wedlock in most religions is a sin, so if you’re trying to practice your faith perhaps this might be something to think about.

Oloni

It depends on how it ended..however I think it’s a better decision if you give yourself time to move into different stages of your life before becoming friends.

Oloni

You need to book an appointment with a sexual health clinic asap my dear. Click HERE to find one close to you. Make these other people the least of your worries. I know it seems scary and I’ve spoken to several people who have been in this position but your body comes first.

Even though I mentioned that your friend and ex need to be the last thing you should think about. Find out what sexual transmitted infection your friend had so you can take the meds as soon as you see a nurse.

I understand you’re hurt and full of unexplainable emotions at this present moment, but what your feeling will go away with TIME.

Oloni

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You told him not to talk to you again, you also said you believe you’re too good for him… Do you actually believe any of that? Because if that was the case why are you thinking about messaging him? Move on with your life, get busy and you’ll be fine.

Oloni