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hey, do you think it is possible to be friends with an ex straight after a break up? 9. April 2016

It depends on how it ended..however I think it’s a better decision if you give yourself time to move into different stages of your life before becoming friends.

Oloni

Hey, I just found out that an ex who I rekindled with sexually this year was also sleeping with my friend. He didn’t know that we were friends, and she didn’t know that he was my ex as its a fairly recent friendship and he’s an ex from a while ago. This is purely coincidence but I’m still hurt and feeling betrayed. To make matters worse, my friend was sleeping with another guy as well as my ex and she has caught an STD. She let my ex know , who did not tell me and continued to have a sexual relationship with me (he still has not been tested). It is highly likely that he has caught it and then transmitted it to me. After forcing him to apologise he did and I haven’t spoken to him or the friend since. She says she is “trying to stop sleeping with him” but he acts very forceful? I just don’t know how to deal with the whole situation. I’m scared to even get tested as I’ve never had an STD. The thought of it makes me stress out… 9. April 2016

You need to book an appointment with a sexual health clinic asap my dear. Click HERE to find one close to you. Make these other people the least of your worries. I know it seems scary and I’ve spoken to several people who have been in this position but your body comes first.

Even though I mentioned that your friend and ex need to be the last thing you should think about. Find out what sexual transmitted infection your friend had so you can take the meds as soon as you see a nurse.

I understand you’re hurt and full of unexplainable emotions at this present moment, but what your feeling will go away with TIME.

Oloni

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So I dated a guy, we broke up and long story short I believe I am too good for him, the last time I spoke to him I told him not to talk to be again and I cut him off. It has been months now and I still miss him and find myself unable to move on…What would the right thing be to do at this stage? Would messaging him be stupid? 9. April 2016

You told him not to talk to you again, you also said you believe you’re too good for him… Do you actually believe any of that? Because if that was the case why are you thinking about messaging him? Move on with your life, get busy and you’ll be fine.

Oloni

Hi Oloni, can you do the call Oloni free relationship advice again please xx 9. April 2016

C’mon, you know you can book calls here: http://simplyoloni.com/simply-oloni-relationship-coaching/

Hi oloni, me and my boyfriend have been arguing over his weed problem i think he smokes way too much but he denies the fact that he does, the problem really bothers me because i don’t want this around my brothers .. i have tried talking to him about it but he doesnt want to listen .. i dont know what to do anymore .. 9. April 2016

Heya, if this is something that truly bothers you then girl you need to talk to him about cutting down or leave.

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