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Every single boyfriend I’ve had has cheated on me, do you think that says more about my character or my inability to pick a good man? 17. March 2016

I don’t know you personally to talk about your character, so what I will say is that you shouldn’t let this discourage you from dating. Try going for a different type of guy. You might be dating and giving attention to the same men without realising, which then, give the same results. If you’d like to be coached contact me HERE

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Hi oloni, I’ve been with my boyfriend for 8 months now, during the beginning of our relationship things were going so great, now all we seem to do is argue, mostly about trust issues because we live quite far away from eachother. He also puts me down so much by saying things like I’m not good at anything and no man will ever love me like he does.. I don’t know what to do.. I love this man but is it worth me waiting for him to change..? Or should I just give up all together, when we’re great things couldn’t be better but when we argue I’m always the one heartbroken.. 17. March 2016

If you’re always heartbroken you need to run far away from this man. A relationship isn’t supposed to make you feel terrible about yourself. He doesn’t sound like a catch and it makes me wonder why, you’ve chosen to stay? You have trust issues, he says nasty things to you and it’s only been 8 months. Do you not believe you deserve better? Would you not like to be with someone who treats you better? Staying in a codependent relationship can be extremely damaging. I’ll keep it real and honestly advise you to terminate this relationship, I doubt things will get any better.

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Hi oloni. Me and my boyfriend have been together a year and a few months. A week ago he told me that him and his family will be moving to Australia once their application has been accepted. He says that he loves me enough to continue a relationship from that far. But I know that it will never work out. I’m the kind of person that needs to see you at least 2/3 times a week and I don’t really believe in long distance relationships especially one that’s so far away. He says he didn’t want to tell me until they actually did get accepted because he didn’t want things to change between us. I said it wouldn’t but I feel like these really no point in continuing if by December he will be gone. I love him and I really saw a future together and I now I know that will never happen. I haven’t become distant but I don’t feel the need to continue things as they are. Please what should I do? Thank you x 17. March 2016

If you already feel like there’s no point continuing the relationship, the first thing you need to do is TALK to him. Have a serious conversation and let him know how you feel. Explain your exact thoughts on the relationship, you need to communicate with him, because even though deep down you don’t want to continue the relationship, at this present moment you are still committed to him and he deserves to know your current thoughts.

Oloni

Hi oloni, so I really liked this guy who I was friends with for a year and I decided to make a move on him. We were both at a party and I got drunk and was all over him but he didnt seem to care, I tried to kiss him and he pushed me away. I was so drunk I started attacking him and punched his nose and concocted a lie about him grouping me. Then all other women as well begun too attack because I was so loud. Apparently he had a broken nose and couple fractures and I really want to apologise for the entire night, but he’s blocked me on all forms of social media. He said he won’t call police but I feel so bad because I know if he attacked I would. I feel so guilty and horrible any advice? 17. March 2016

First off, you need to stay way from drinking for a very long time. Anyone who acts like that when intoxicated should not be consuming alcohol. If I was him I’d block your number too, what you did was very unforgivable. Set the story straight with those who joined in attacking him, you don’t want him to be painted as a villain especially when it was you who as acting up. If you have any other way of contacting this guy, such as Instagram DM or Facebook, send an email apologising. Once you’ve done all of this try doing some self evaluation and seeking a therapist, your behaviour that night was very serious.

Oloni

Hi Oloni & Ebi, this isn’t a serious dilemma but here goes… I’ve got a crush on someone at work. He’s awkward and avoids saying hi to me . The few times I’ve had to speak to him, he’s avoided eye contact. I’ve seen him looking at me a few times but he always looks away before I can say anything to him. The handful of times I’ve bumped into him he smirks. I don’t know whether it’s worth trying to speak to him or not? He’s making me feel a bit uncomfortable?! Have you got any advice for me? I can’t tell whether he’s interested or he’s really not? 17. March 2016

Hey, what you mentioned sounds very confusing but I’d advise you not to focus on it too much. He just might need more time to feel more comfortable especially since what described sounds like he’s extremely shy.

Oloni

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