Leave him alone dear. Give him some space, it’s only been 2 days. I understand that when you fight with someone you love, you never want a break up to be the final decision as it doesn’t feel like that’s the result you wanted in the end. But you you have to leave him alone, you can’t force him to text or see you. He might contact you in his own time you just have to allow him to do it. You mentioned that you’re finding it hard to cope without him in your dilemma entry and hun, one thing I’ve learnt is to never allow your happiness to depend on a man. I get that you just miss him, so do me a favour and keep yourself busy to take your mind off things. Read a book, cook, go out with your friends, have a movie marathon, exercise, do some work. . . you’ll be fine.

Oloni

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As long as he’s checking her don’t worry yourself. If it does however become WAY TOO MUCH ask him to block her, I’m sure he won’t have an issue with it.

Oloni

Hey hun, I’d suggest you have a conversation with him, explaining how you feel. Then I’d advise you to think about the relationship deeply. If you can’t trust him, why are you torturing yourself? You can’t help how you feel, I understand, but you can help the situation you’re in by walking away. There really is no other answer.

Oloni

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The choice of whether to leave or stay is entirely up to you. However my opinion on the matter is that you should be selfish. You’ve been granted a great opportunity, something you worked for, something you earned and in no way shape or form should this be compromised. You mentioned it yourself he isn’t your husband, however it is IMPORTANT you discuss it with him, discuss out of respect and to let him know this is something you’re thinking about doing.. not discuss to the point that he decides whether you move left or right, if you get my drift. As for the other things you’ve mentioned about your boyfriend, he sounds a bit controlling and possessive, don’t you think? Remember he doesn’t own you, so never let him tell you how to dress or where to go, that’s really not on. The truth is if you believe he’s holding you back due to not being on the same page in terms of progress, be realistic with yourself.

Oloni

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