It doesn’t make you insecure or mean you don’t trust your partner. Hun the word you’re looking for is ‘uncomfortable’- People try to cover up the emotion of some women by branding them as insecure. Talk to him and let him know how you feel, especially it the communication between the two is frequent.

Oloni

I’ve learnt that arguments in relationships are VERY healthy. It’d be a tad creepy if you NEVER had one. However, not everything needs to turn into a tongue war. You both need to learn to find new ways to communicate with each other. Listen a lot more and try to study your partners behaviour. If you know what will make them mad, avoid it. The whole point of  a relationship is to grow together (grow happy), a part of that means finding different ways to understand each other.

Oloni

Hey hun, I’m so sorry to hear about what you went through, but I’m glad that you got yourself checked after what you had heard. Please always use condoms in the future regardless of if that person your partner or not. Protection is way better than cure and it’s always best to practice safe sex. You have no reason to feel a way about telling him that you caught an STD off him, it didn’t come out of thin air. You got it because you were sexually active with him, remember that. If you’re both grown enough to lie naked together, then you should be grown enough to discuss this.. you’ve already said you’re quite close so inform him asap. Now him getting checked up is his responsibility, not yours. The most you can do is TELL him. Do not sleep with him, till you have proof that he’s got the clear too girl.

Oloni

How about you talk to him about it. I will say however that he sounds like a very dodgy lad and you don’t need to be around that, if he’s selling drugs you know what you need to do.

Oloni

Of course. Many have survived it, but many have also tried to force themselves to survive through it. It’s quite difficult but it’s certainly possible. It’ll take time, patience, trust and forgiveness.

Oloni