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My stepmum and I were once having a conversation about us never orgasming, after a while we started performing oral sex on each other and using toys. It’s been AMAZING. No feelings just exploring really. It’s been 2 months and my big sister caught us and she’s making me tell my dad or she will. I dunno how to break it to him. It’s just been 2 women experimenting, nothing more but he’ll see it as something big and I don’t want them to get divorced. How do I tell him without making it sound like a big deal? 14. December 2016

You and your step mum are wild inappropriate. If either of you wanted to explore wtf would you do with each other? ‘two women experimenting’ my ass. Two women being stupid as f*ck. Your dad married someone who he trusted to have around his kids and this is the messed up sh*t you’re both doing?

I pray to God you’re trolling me, but if not, don’t be surprised if your dad’s relationship gets very bumpy.

Oloni

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Hi Oloni . I was seeing this guy for 2 years during this time I fell pregnant and he pushed for me to get an abortion. About 3 weeks after I had it I find out he had a girlfriend of about 4 years. All hell broke lose and it all got really complicated . He chose to chase her and went back and forth between us twice. She stopped having it and he said he wants to try being with me . I found out that they still talk but only “banter”. How do I trust that his being genuine? 14. December 2016

Don’t trust him, get rid of this guy immediately. His past behaviour has shown how insensitive and deceitful he can be, so exactly why would you want that type of person around you?

Oloni

Hey Oloni. I just started to see this guy a couple months ago. He seems like a cool guy and he’s really attractive. We went on a first date which was great however I just found that out that he has a girlfriend. He told me he was single this whole time and when I confronted him he said that the relationship was on the rocks and he was going to leave soon. I really like him and I don’t know whether to trust he will end it and go with my heart or just end it. 14. December 2016

The fact he took you out on a date makes him look incredibly slimy. It seems as if he was trying to play it safe and figure out if there’s better out there. Is that the type of person, you really want pursuing you?

Do better hun.

Oloni

Hi oloni, hope you are well. I am seeing my ex boyfriend in two days to pass some of his belongings over. We haven’t spoken for a couple months but I really want him back. How should I play it? If the talking turns into kissing should I sleep with him or hold out? Thank you xx 14. December 2016

Ask if you can have a conversation with him and say what’s on your mind. Don’t have sex, it’ll complicate things.

Oloni

Hi Oloni, so I really liked a guy I was blood-related to. And I never he knew he liked me too till he told me this summer and said he’s had feelings for me much longer but didn’t know how to tell because we were related. So basically one thing led to another and we had sex several time. Mind you I was a virgin so I lost it to him. But he had a girlfriend and I told him I didn’t want to be a side thing so he broke up with his girl, and the girl doesn’t know I’m the reason why they broke up. I feel horrible. 11. December 2016

Heya, this whole situation is quite twisted because you’re having a sexual relationship with someone you’re related to. I think it’d be wise if you seriously evaluated this whole situation and ask yourself if anything positive will come from it. It could seriously create a lot of problem in the future and make your relationship even more awkward. Innocent people such as his ex-girlfriend are already getting hurt and with no knowledge of what it truly happening and why. Please think about your actions and do the right thing by ending this.

Oloni

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