It really depends on his delivery… I’m not in your relationship so I can’t tell what place it’s coming from, but if I’m honest from what you’ve said, I think he just wants his girlfriend in the gym with him. I doubt it’s malicious, especially if you have a great body already. Talk to him about it if it is bothering you.

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Please move on.

Oloni

You’re in a really controlling relationship. Your partner is also VERY insecure. If I’m honest I don’t see a conversation resolving this, because it’s literally gone past a ‘we need to have a chat babe.’ – The mistake made on your part was moving in with your girlfriend after a couple of months, move the heck out and get your space back so you can breathe.

She has a lot of issues she has to deal with herself before she can be with anyone. A relationship that hasn’t had a terrible history should not look like this after 6 months at all.

Oloni

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Have a conversation with him and tell him what’s going through your head.

Oloni

Wow! Hey hun, I’m so sorry to hear about what you’re going through, especially on your own. Right now I’d tell you not to focus on the guy you were dating because he sounds irresponsible and very insensitive, especially for ghosting out on you like that. I’m guessing you’re from the States so did some research on what you can do in terms of money.

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I hope you get all the help you need! Make sure you do more research and speak to someone you trust who can guide and give you that emotional support.

Oloni