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Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now he was my first but he gave me herpes, it was hard but I didn’t mind because I thought we’d always be together but now I no longer feel as strongly as I did for him. I feel like the main reason I’m with him is because I don’t think I’ll be able to be with other people because of my situation. 4. December 2016

Hey hun! There are plenty of people living with incurable STI’s. In fact I answer a dilemma similar to yours in my new eBook Dear Oloni grab it quickly HERE

What I will say is, if this relationship isn’t for you let him go. It’s such an unhealthy decision to stay with someone because you feel you won’t find someone else, no matter what your circumstances are.

Oloni

Hi Oloni, I’ve been talking to this guy for about 3 months now and we get along really well. I love his personality and feel like we just get each other. The relationship is long distance however. He is in Leeds and I’m in London for university. As such we don’t see each other often especially being that I work part time on weekends so don’t have time to go back to Leeds to see him. My dilemma is that I don’t find him physically attractive at all. However I love him as a person and enjoy talking to him so much. I feel confused with my feelings. He has made his feelings towards me very clear but I don’t know if I feel the same. Am I being shallow? Should I look past the exterior? Should we just be friends or could there be something more despite lack of physical attraction. 4. December 2016

Heya hun, a lot of people have grown to be attracted to their partners, so this could be one of those scenarios. It doesn’t make you shallow, because at the end of the day you have to be attracted to who you’re dating. If i were you I’d take my time but also make arrangements to meet up more, regardless of your busy schedule. Only so you can mane you’re own decision.

Oloni

Hey Oloni, ive been talking to this guy for a couple months now and we’ve seen eachother once. We talk sometimes but the conversations are always dead. I feel like he doesn’t make any effort to get to know me or speak to me. I do like him. What should I do? 4. December 2016

Let it go. Or ask to meet up, however I don’t understand how you can like someone you have dry conversations with??

Oloni

Hey Oloni, I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost two and a half years. He never calls me. He gives the excuse that he prefers texting. We have fought over this over and over again and I’m just over it. What do I do? 4. December 2016

I’d really suggest you get my new eBook Dear Oloni, I answer this question perfectly there. Get it HERE

Hi me and my ex (who I split up with 3 years ago) for the past year have been having sex every couple of months. He hardly ever messages me but when we are together, he hints at being in a relationship with me. He has never been great with expressing his emotions. Should I ask him how he feels or will that be embarrassing for me? I’m not sure what I want from him myself. X 4. December 2016

The sex is complicating things for the both of you, so I’d suggest you stop sleeping with him till you know what exactly it is you want.

If it’s still a relationship, just simply tell him how you feel and see how he responds.

Oloni

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